Since my girlfriend is been a total dick without noticing it I am not giving a fuck what she's doing I am freezing her out allot lately. She just went away with her family for the week she is home today and she wants to go out tonight, at first I was like nice you'd rather go out rather than see me and was pissed at the start. But I told her go out have fun and I'll see her whenever, I don't think she realises how much it annoys me she does that.

She's a good girlfriend apart from that She just bought me loads clothes always tells me how happy and how much she loves me etc... But this is the last chance she's getting If this freeze out and not giving a hell what she does, doesn't work she's gone I've told her but she just not getting it. So I am going to play her at her own game I'm going to start gaming girls again I won't close them because I don't cheat but I am going to be a huge flirt make her work for me again.

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Welll how does she know its an issue with you, if you don't open your mouth and tell her? If you have to "freeze out" your girlfriend, does it make sense to even be with her? If you have to play all these games, and use all these tactics it does not make sense too be with her in the first place. To me it seems as if you're forcing the relationship, and you're putting your needs on the back burner, and trying very hard too give this "I dont give a fuck pua vibe" off to her, but you truly do, and you're hiding your true feelings. I could see if you're gaming her, but it's a relationship, and if you think she shouldn't be doing something call her out on it, and if she doesn't like it, dump her ass. Is this girl really worth all this bullshit you think you have to do..

I'm going to start gaming girls again I won't close them because I don't cheat but I am going to be a huge flirt make her work for me again.

That's good bro, I'm glad to see that you are not going to chase her. However, you have to be ready to move on if your tactic doesn't work.

I've seen guys freeze their girl out for one reason or another, and end up chasing her again when they see it didn't work. If this happens, you will be in a world of hurt.

It sounds like she has her own life outside of your relationship. You can't get upset about that. I recommend you do the same, if you haven't already. Communicate that your world does not revolve around her and you will be amazed at the results.

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Bigdog- IF you've read any of my post then you will know I've spoke to her more than once. But like Sin said I need to realise she has her own life outside of her relationship I guess that's what I need to get over. I've never actually thought that I thought she was just been selfish and only thinking of her but I do call her out and I have told her if she carries this shit on I am gone.

Sin- I think you are right but I'm a VERY stubborn person sometimes to stubborn for my own good so running back to her won't be an issue here. I have had Invites to parties tonight tomorrow and Sunday I want to live my own life but It's hard when I have no money so I rely on seeing her even thought we do only see each other once or twice a week otherwise I wouldn't have this problem in the first place because If I had the money I would go out allot more than I do now. When you say communicate saying the world doesn't revolve around her what do you mean by that because at the moment I'm acting like it does.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

her having friends and her own social life is one of the most vital things to a long term relationship. encourage it. just don't wait around while she's out having fun.

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Dont play games in relationships. Nobody ever wins.

If you're talking to her and shes not understanding, then you arent saying the right thing the right way. Communication seems to be your biggest issue. If shes being a total dick, then politely explain to her the problem. Dont let things slide because as you can see, you will start to resent her behaviour. If you address problems as they occur rather than later on down the track, they are fixed faster with less hassle.

+1 exactly

Plus time spent gaming other girls can be time used to fix/improve your current relationship

Why is her going out mutually excluded from her seeing you?

Are you not invited to come along? If not, IMHO there better be a good reason.
Do you not like her friends or feel comfortable around them? Thats a major problem.

I think if two people are in a relationship, they should naturally become friends with each others' respective friends.

communication goes a long way..

communication goes a long way..

i never liked girlfriends friends because they always hated me for having a relationship with her , they always tried to get into her pants. i like female friends tho lol.

there are always these orbiter chodes ... anyoing ppl

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lol atleast you are friends with some of her friends.