Hey
This girl and I had great chemistry, we are super attracted to each other and it wasnt really allowed cus she was dating a friend of mine. Then recently she came and visited me with some friends in my hometown and we hit it off and had sex a few times and were close. Then she went back to her hometown and I came up to visit her and a bunch of my friends who live here as well. Now she's cold and rude, hard to make plans with, no fun to hang out with, doesnt give me much attention.. But I can tell she really is thinking about/looking at/wondering where I am when I'm not there...

Basically this girl is a whole load of immaturity, drama and bullshit, but she's super sexy, and I've gotten to know the good side of her. While I'm on vacation for another month here what should I do? Right now when I see her I'm nice and casual until she's bitchy and then I ignore her. I have a feeling she might just not be comfortable with herself/not know what to do. Except she did this whole game bullshit with her ex as well... I need to either talk to her or just pretend nothing is bothering me at all.

Any advice?

Thank you

UPDATE:

Okay now it's been about two weeks, when I see her she's cold and rude. I'm starting to think shes like this to everyone though.. Anyway she tells me things are different now. Her friends tell me she's still got feelings for her ex (he's already banging some other sexy girl). At parties we're both at she comes near me, I'm either nice till shes rude at which point I move to a different group. Or, she approaches the group I'm in and openly hits on other guys/sits on their laps and shit next to me. Everyone knows we had a thing, they all say things like we should kiss and make up. etc.. I take it all very lightly and try and have fun.

She slept in my bed with me, but turned the other way right at the end of the bed and was pretty frigid all night.. till I started touchng her legs/thighs/up near her ass, when her breathing changed and cued me to go in I went for the makeout which she went along with.. about 10 seconds in she turned back over and tried to fall asleep.

The weekend went on and things didn't progress. She only got bitchier, but I noticed I'm not the only one she's bitchy too..

I think she's very confused/sad about her ex having moved on so quickly. I'm also realizing she's quite immature, these are all 12th graders and she's 18. (I'm 19).

Now I'll be around here until the beginning of June, however I'm going somewhere for 6 days and will be back the 18th. I'll be around her and all her friends for a bunch of big graduation parties and other fun stuff. When I get back from where I'm going is probably the next time I'll see her. I want to hold off from communication until then and when I get back/we are around each other just be light and fun.. But I'm trying to think of what to say/do with her to make things all better.. I know shes physically attracted to me but just lost in the confusion of a young girl.. How can I make her realize I'm open to whatever, even being homies, but just want there to be good vibes and if possible have a great time together whenever we have the chance.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to getting some great advice from you all!

Peace out

Just act cool around her, what you are already doin at the moment if im right.
You could try to have a good conversation with her about her problems, but if she doesn't want to then leave it at that.

Just be friendly for the time you are there. And forget about her when u are back home.

Thats my opinion, Goodluck!

Ive seen this often with chicks between the age of 16 and 19. Unfortunately they need to be entertained. So you will need to brush up on some gimmics or whatnot to keep her occupied. The problem however will not just go away, you might get a bit more action but don't expect to date her.

Rather move on to the next one!

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