I've know this girl for a while from school. She is very flirty when she is around me and lets me go in for kino but gives slight LMR. Problem is, she is like this with a number of guys i know ( not necessarily my closest friends but i talk with them every once in a while ). How would i be able to reel her in to make her mine and our relationship a bit more serious ( not really a very serious relationship, but to the point where she would save herself for me and no other guy ).

Feel free to ask for more details if you need more background.

Looking forward to you guys' responses! Thanks!

in the same situation... looking forward to seeing what the responses are!

Well there are some big things that stick out to me and I will address those. One I don't think u understand kino. How can she give u lmr to u tapping her arm while you are both laughing? If you are just moving to grabbing her inner thigh...I could see why a high school girl would be like um what r u doing?. Kino is about escalating. You start by just getting her used to being touched by you then go from there. Next, who cares if she talks to other guys n is flirtatious? You don't own her and never will. That's okay. Even if you are together in a committed relationship you in no way own her and she in no way owns you. Also, who cares if she "saves herself"? A girl that isn't a virgin is in no way tainted. I know its difficult for you to get that in high school when surrounded by virgins, but once you get into the real world you will realize virgins r practically nonexistent and who would want to be with a girl with no experience anyways? Ok now that we are challenging the afc in you, its time to step up your game.

You are starting from a losing stand point. You were asking how to get her to save herself for you. You should be asking how to get her for yourself...there is a huge difference. Next, have you memorized any of the dif lil routines n games n shit. If not, do that. They are useful and will come in handy when you pull them out. Finally, have an awesome event and invite her to it. Ie im going to this party friday at x's house at y time. Then invite. After u isolate at the event, run some routines while escalating kino. This means everytime u ask a question in the cube you are touching her arm or back or whatever. Its just about getting her used to touch at this point. Keep a strong sexual frame, and continue to escalate kino. Run more routines if you want, or don't, but throw in some dhv stories n I like to tailor mine to living life in the moment just going with it. Its really all about the vibe. If u keep a strong sexual frame, build attraction, and escalate kino properly, you will feel the "its on" moment, n just GO. Hope this helps...I can tell u r crazy new to this, n girls in general, but hey your getting into it at the right time. Post your field reports n ill try to help. Good luck n happy hunting.

my situation is a bit different tbh, should i explain here or start a new topic? don't want to hijack J12395's post

new one. You'll be helped

also what kinorc said is totally right, good plan.

and you guys should know that this whole stuff isn't just gaming.
You actually have to be an attractive guy and live an attractive lifestyle.
Always reminds me of something Ted from How I met your mother said,
that the story is about how he became the person he needed to become to get her.

Thanks for the reply! l like your insight on kino, i kind of did get the wrong idea. lol

But here is the thing, she would slap my ass ( i kinda got a big ass haha ) and she would keep it going, but if i would try and give her a smack, she would resist and push away. This is one of the things that has confused me with this chick.

what kino routines can i use? i dont really know routines.

Also, how could i keep the convo going on in the hallways from class to class. I tend to forget everything that i have prepared and have an awkward silence for about 3 minutes straight. it kills me!!!

Post it on here, i dont mind! In fact, i think it would be more helpful to have a different perspective from a fellow PUAintraining. We can give each other feedback and help with figuring these chicks out.

I just wrote the thread i would post and it turned into a bit of a long one and pretty detailed so i'll post it as its own topic and post the link here if any of you are interested/have advice.

Here's the thread i posted earlier dude... nothing useful yet but hopefully someone will give us both something to go on! good luck

viewtopic.php?p=473654#473654

just remember the risk of getting more serious, alot of people loss themselves and screw things up.

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