I've known this girl for quite a few years and she's told me in the past that she liked me but back then i was too preoccupied with my oneitis. We're pretty good friends and tell each other lots of stuff. Now she has a bf and the thing is.. she complains to me about their fights and stuff. from what i can tell, he's real afc wussy type guy.

Now recently i decided i wanted to game her. we spend more time in person now though as opposed to before when we just talked online. but it seems all we talk about is her problems with her bf and his afcness. when this happens i usually try to dlv the bf by saying stuff like, "wow thats pretty sad.."

i know i might already be in the ljbf zone but i think i can break out. how would i steal her in this situation? from a pua POV, i think the thing to do is to kino escalate but i think this would make her feel guilty since she knows that i know that she has a bf and also we're pretty good friends.

Well...from what you posted it definitely sounds like you're in the ljbf zone. She's using you as her emotional tampon which is never a good thing if you're trying to game the chick. If I was in your personal situation I would drop her and start finding other girls to game.

If a girl tries to talk to me about other guys I usually pretend to fall asleep and I fake snore loudly. Ha. Or I give her one word answers about it and do what I can to take the conversation in another direction.

About the bf... well, I wouldn't worry about him. If you're that concerned about ruining their relationship then you shouldn't be gaming her. I would search for Boyfriend Destroyers on this forum if I were you. I've used a few to success, and I'm kind of building a reputation among my friends as a serious boyfriend destroyer. I'm actually not proud of this, and I need to turn it around.

Again, I would advise you to next her and find some new girls.

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well one thing i forgot to mention..

her bf knows about me gets kinda jealous/mad. recently i've been out with her and her bf called. she lied to him about where she was and said she'd call back later.

im thinking this is a friend zone i can turn around