I have known this girl for years and we are cool although we are just in the same group of friends. She is like a 9+ but its weird she only talks to me if she is kinda drunk and has no other guys hitting on her. She is an attention whore for sure. I have ignored her before and she started to get jealous, regain control and even started showing me her naked pics on her phone! I then told her I didn't want to see her pics cuz it would just make me want her and she wouldnt give it up anyways Blaach blaah. . I don't hqve her number and that's Proble a good thing but i need maybe some pionters if shes in the mood to talk to me what to do. [/quote]

Do nothing. Attention whores will break your heart and sap your soul. If you really want her, don't tell her you like her, neg her, ignore her and continue with your life. If she likes you she will pursue you.

If I'm not mistakenshe has some sort of attraction toward me. I know these girls can make u think that when they don't. I have never really pursued her tho. I see her every 2-3 weeks or so just run into her at a party concert dance hall whatever.I know she hates it when I ignore her and seems to get jealous when she sees me having fun with other girls. shes 20 im 24 i know shes not a slut I have asked all her friends and my friends that know her. and im pretty sure she has had only 1 bf that she.broke up with a while back. She's kind of a follower not a leader in her group. I know last time we Hung out at the dance hall was the. Farthest i have ever gotten with her and ill just ?eep doing that. I suck at negs they are always. too harsh. im going to have to try tho. Thanks

Shes probably attracted more towards your attention then anything. When she starts to take a genuine interest in you then maybe you can start saying shes truly attracted to you.

Will the cold shoulder suffice?^

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I'm going to try to set it up where she can see me having fun with and paying attention to other girls and basically ignore her. And see whats up. I was doing good last time we hung out I had 2girls sittin in my lap n we were havin a blast talkin and I'm busting on them and this girl were talking about was tryin to squeeze in beside me and get my attn by showing me her dirty pics on her phone. It was interesting... then she went off to seek attn from somebody else and she came back crying... Idk what that was all about but i think that ruined my chances. I actually drove her home that night she was pissed off the whole way home.. I haven't heard from her since.

No number? Damn, sounds like you're in a pickle..

If you "suddenly grow a heart" for this girl just cause she cried (e.g. you ask her what went down, etc) it's gonna throw her off beat.. Cause she thinks you don't care about her at all - at least nothing more than a friend. So what i'd advise is to just make sure she's comfortable, see if you can find a friend of hers to deliver a teddy for her or something... In turn, she's gonna say: "Who's this from" and the minute her friend describes it's you, she's gonna grow soft and warm..

Does giving her a teddy mean you're now a gay doormat?? No. It means you have a heart.

Just don't fall for the drastic error of suddenly showing her all the attention she's been wanting suddenly.. Give it to her in incremental amounts.. Meaning - don't buy her teddys, get her number, kiss her, and then hold her - all within the same 2 day period... Go slow. Sounds like this girl has had some bad situations and could use a genuine guy to be around for the long-term.

I talked to her best friend today and she is "mad at me because I friend zoned her" awesome...

That's exactly where you want to be.. Her friend just told you that she likes you dude.. read between the lines.

Now it's your choice - do you wanna act on it and make something out of this, or lay it down and walk away? Whatever the choice, you have the option!

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