Folks I met a girl 4 months ago and date her regularly once a week, wfor four months we went to movies, eat out and talked. No sex. Sex came last week common agreement and was not great. Seems me and the girl are out of sync. Since the beginning of the relationship to say so I had not felt the "need" for her. I've met ther girls kept things open and never promissed her nothing. But seems we are on a dead end. I don't wanna give a next step and she fortunatelly havent mentioned anything. Still I'm afraid I will hurt this gril. I like her but I dont feel like comminting to anything at the momment and I made it clear. What would you do in my shoes? I can give more info if needed.

What makes u think ur in a relationship with her? Have u asked her out at all like? Let me break it down for u: it does not seem like a relationship therefore ur problem does not exist. Just put her into friends zone.

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jakslip~

Dont be a pussy and tell her what you just said on here maybe?

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A Tru nigga

as said above, discuss it with her. the worrying about hurting her thing will just lead to you hurting her.

It doesn't sound like you guys have done anything too fun. Movies, dinner, and just hanging out are great, but in order to get to really know someone I think you BOTH need to step outside your comfort zones and do something neither of you would normally do.

On second thought, maybe not...I got roped into going skydiving with my girl next week...

man up and tell her wassup. end of story.