So one of my best friends has a girlfriend who is really awesome and tonight me, my best friend, his girlfriend (Best Friends Girlfriend, BFGF) and his girlfriends best friend (HB8) went out to the cinema tonight. This wasn't the first time I've met HB8 as BFGF, HB8 and I had gone out to dinner a week earlier, in that time I received a lot of IOI's from HB8 and with the aid of BFGF bringing her to the cinema tonight I was able to kiss close quite easily given the amount of IOI's I got and the amount of kino escalation I used and received from her.

Anyway I asked her once in the car before making out with her (literally about 5mins before making out with, my friends were getting stuff from the house so we were alone) if she wanted to get sushi sometime in the week. She said she didn't like sushi blah blah blah but said yes to going out. I convinced her to trust me and come with me to a good sushi place and if she doesn't like it I'll go eat Persian food with her next time. The second time I asked her I was kissing her goodbye at her car and she said

"I'll see you next week"
"Absolutely and we'll go for sushi"

She text me when she got back home saying
"I made it home alive"
"Glad to hear it. What days are you free next week to experiment with some new food?"
"I can probably do it Wednesday afternoon or Thursday night. But let's just figure it out as we go along"
"Wednesday afternoon would work well for me too but you're right let's just figure it out as we go along."

So here is my question, did I ask far to many times about taking her out next week for food? I think that because I'm posting this I probably did and she wanted to me put on the breaks for a minute before I died at the idea of her not coming for sushi. Or am I reading to much into it? Also how should I react to her saying "Let's just figure it out as we go along?"

My game has become pretty solid around random girls I just want to fuck but I kind of like this girl and I can tell because any time I start to really like a girl I start to question everything and get pretty nervous around her which is kind of annoying even though I'm able to hide it very well.

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You've already kiss closed her so you must have done something right. Yes you asked too many times, you want definite plans while she wants flexibility. When she said let's just figure it out, you agreed with her in such a passive manner I'm curious to how this all started.

You're time is important and therefore if you want to make solid plans MAKE THEM. Say "I'm busy next week, so it's wednesday or not."

To me you sound like a bitch the second and third time you tried to confirm it.

Is this girl a genuine pick up? Did you meet her through friends?

There is no point in "hiding" your nervousness. If your nervous, then calm the fuck down. Draw state. Say to yourself "I'm the shit, I'm the shit, I'm the shit." It's all about your state and your confidence in yourself. Once you start to "really like this girl" your falling into afc-mode again. Snap out of it!

Yeah you're right, complete bitch and reverting back to AFC if I don't get my shit together. The only reason I came across as so passive was to show her that I wasn't always full throttle and could easily give her space and stuff.

My game for kiss closing her was pretty solid and involved a lot of C & F and a lot of playful teasing. Asking her out like that was the first sign of AFC behavior from me.

So the question now is how do I fix it? Do I leave her for an entire day without making any contact? Then see how she is tomorrow or do I just text her casually later on tonight to see how her day was?

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I dont know, your overcomplicating things. Stop thinking about this so much. Just remember not to be a douchebag but also be decisive, confident, and sexually aware. I don't know what you want from this girl..sex? Know what you want, where you are heading and be clear about your intentions. Be romantic sometimes, and learn how to make her feel good. So that no matter what happens she'll always want you...

If I were you I'd worry less about these petty "asides" and more about the whole picture.

By asking if you asked her too much, you already know the answer. Also, if you set up a time to kick it, I wouldn't hit her up everyday in between. If she is somehow knocking u off ur game a little texting alot can only fuck u over. Set up something. When I used to be a salesman, I wad taught to give two options for appointments. If im inviting a girl to an event such as a party or going to a club with a group, obviously that's a one shot deal. If im setting up somethin a week or so in advance, I will give two days when im available n if she can't, then too bad for her. I normally am not free every night, so a two day option is fine. If she says she can't do it one day but asks if you can do it a day u didn't tell her, don't immediately say yes even if you are free. Say you have something to do n u will see if you could be available n let her know. I think its very common for guys, after they have had some level of success with a girl to fall into afc tendencies. They think that somehow if they r starting to win, they can stop playing the game. Nothing could be further from the truth. Imagine how many guys this girl has probably kissed or made out with just to find out they weren't guys she wanted to fuck. Don't fall into this category. Continue to play the game, and remember its not over until you fuck her, and evn then its only just begun enjoy n gl