For a fact, you made a big mistake in just IGNORING her after.

That was a horrible thing to do because after you left she was weighing in her mind:
"WTF just happened? Did he really just rape me or was he just playing a game?"

She was texting you for reassurance, that it was not an act of hatred against her, and that you did not intend to do her grievous insult and harm.
You then DENIED her that reassurance. So guess which conclusion she just made?

That's right. This girl thinks you HATE her and that you wanted to HURT her. And that you think she is a WHORE.

Even after a regular vanilla lay the girl needs that reassurance you don't think she's a whore, that next day call/text is important, unless you don't mind pissing her off so that she never wants to see or fuck you again.

Her mind has just made a trip to the 7th level of hell right now. She is in a great deal of mental turmoil. Because she liked you and thought you liked her.

A BDSM kink novice like you really should not play games like this. You do NOT walk out and ignore her. How nice you are to the girl after could determine whether or not she calls the cops and you end up facing charges. The girl must be made to understand you were "Only Pretending."

After a heavy "scene" that is very physically traumatic, as well as psychologically traumatic, such as play-rape scenes are, the girl always requires "after care" by the man displaying that he is tender and loving and comforting afterward. This is to balance it out and bring back the girls state of mental equilibrium.

This is not a suggestion, it is a requirement.

2fast4love is right, BDSM is a risky game which needs tons of trust and comfort, and ignoring her was a bad move. She texted you expecting an answer.

It was her idea for you to break in and take
advantage of her in the first place. Not a very
subtle IOI by any means. She knew that you were
coming by, and hence the door was left unlocked.

She might not have expected you to actually
just swoop in, take it, and dip. I don't doubt
that she knew who it was, after all she was
expecting you to stop by. As long as she
wasn't saying stop or showing strong
signs of resistence then you weren't
doing anything she didn't ask for.

And so the f-k what if she's thinks that
he thinks she's a whore? He probably
does, and so do I. He only talked to
her twice and she's ready to give
it up. Nicely played dude, and
don't be afraid to hurt that
b-tch. You don't wanna
make a women like
that a LTR n e way.

MCD2400, I find your way of thinking disturbing. Ever heard about the Madonna/whore complex?

WTF? Don't be afraid to hurt that bitch?? That's a sick way of thinking, really.

I agree with his comment about you wouldn't want to make it into a LTR though. I couldn't be seen in public with a girl who I knew had been probably doing that countless times..

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Behind the lady who dances and the man who madly drinks, i'll show you the truth about love.

This girl was probably joking. She was violently raped and now probably fucked up mentally. Why else would she just walk away? It is likely that she was numb/traumatized. MCD2400- you are a scumbag. This and concepts like breaking down the anti-slut defense or whatever really make the community seem pro-rape. I am a firm believer in erring on the side of caution when it comes to consent.

I think that you're slightly over-reacting mate, no offence.

If SHE thought it WAS rape, she'd of made sure he was aware of it.. according to what the original poster said, she didn't scream, scratch or shout anything at him to try and get anyone's attention or get him off of her. It seems very unlikely that she didn't want the sex. Some people love a bit of role-play.

Nothing said here suggests anyone is pro-rape. Even MCD2400 didn't say anything pro-rape.

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Behind the lady who dances and the man who madly drinks, i'll show you the truth about love.

Yes, I am a scumbag and yes, she is a whore. 2fast4love is a homo virgin. If I wanted a relationship with her I would have called her the next day. But I honestly don't care if I ever see this girl again. That is the abundance mentality.

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"Fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind."

My sister in law & close friend was raped by two lowlifes a few years ago, i think you are a disturbed & twisted person for boasting about something that is in effect, the act of a sexual predator!....... How can you share this kind of thing with people & then try to justify it by saying that its ok cos it was her idea!! Shame on you!!!

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Seize the day. Be significant.

There are two kinds of people out there.
Those who care about people.
And those that don't.
You clearly don't.
We clearly do.

You don't care about the state of this woman; only that you had sex.
We are thinking/worried about what she's going through.
There's no way we'll ever understand each other.

However, I'd like to point out that it's your ethics that are messed up.

Look man, it's ok not to want a relationship with this girl, it's ok to fulfill a fantasy, all that's good. But the thing is, if there is no aftercare after a scene like that, it's kind of like a rape. 2fast4love knows what he's talking about, he's obviously experienced in BDSM and I had my share of experiences with that particular kink, that's why we're saying you should have stuck around. It has nothing to do with wanting a relationship, it's just something that's done after fake rape scenes, even if you don't care about the girl, it's just basically human to make sure she's ok, these scenes can be traumatizing. So you made this mistake and well everybody makes mistakes, I'm not saying you're a scumbag, I'm just saying this is something to have in mind when doing kinky stuff.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Nice...I used to fuck this hot doper chick n she wanted to get fake raped...sadly tho she got real clingy n weird so I broke it off before I got to. Im glad SOMEONE is fake raping tho...wtg buddy

*edit from here on cause I didn't see the other posts...

Who gives a fuck about her feelings?? Whoever called the one kid a homo virgin lmmfao...why does it seem that soooo many people on here have this weird sense of morality?? Like you HAVE to care or something?? I say treat her like she is. Is she's a dirty little who're, treat her as such. If she is classy n reserved, bring the who're out of her lol. Everyone is sexual. Stop looking at girls as some special creatures to be admired. It really seems like too many people are putting the pussy on a pedastool (sp?). She wanted to get fake raped, n she got it. I would've tested back, but hey who gives a fuck if he didn't. He had his fun n she got a crazy intense experience. There is no need to tie a bunxha weirdness to it. She wanted, she got, he left, who cares??

Nobody's putting pussy on a pedestal. What amazes me here that some guys have no feeling of empathy whatsoever. Like none. I agree that sex shouldn't be associated with the strong feeling of guilt as it usually is, but come on, there is an actual person behind that pussy you're banging. What happened to leave them better than you found them? Don't be assholes, really no need for that.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Attacking someone else for stating their opinion is not "the abundance mentality"
It usually is a sign of a lack of confidence which make's me believe A: This was a fake Lay Report or B: You actually did text her back and are trying to sound macho. But fuck if i know what really happened. The point I would like to get accross is that a man aint a man in a one night stand. (Cheap Trick)

The fact that she texted you what she texted you means she wanted to talk to you again. She did not want to be used and thought of as a slut, which in any case, is unfair to all women simply because if a women enjoys having a lot of sex then she's a slut, and if a man enjoys having a lot of sex he is a bad ass. She did not want to talk to you to have sex with you again so, sorry dude but you probably sucked. I wouldnt be surprised if she was pissed that she had to miss Greys anatomy for that.

A lot of guys think about just getting it in and getting it out. They dont give a shit about the girl which really is fine. Most of the time the girl doesnt give a shit about the guy either, they are just more emotionally unstable and cant accept that yea they want to get fucked just as bad as we want to fuck them. What guys dont realize is that if you take the time to get the girl off, if you get that wet waterfall all over your cock, then the sex is actually better for both of you. So really your missing out if you cant take the time to make the girl gush. Fuck her then never talk to her again.....why is that, why not get her to want to have sex with you again. If you can get a girl to call you and ask for sex, not call you and complain about how you dont take her out, then you have become more of a man (in my opinion which you probably dont give a shit about but hey maybe you will grasp some of it).

Whats better, having sex with 30 women? OR Having sex with 30 women multiple times?

FYI This is my first non drunk post... Ill do a shot to that