Hello guys,

A month ago this girl added me on facebook and we kinda start conversation over how many friends we have incomon and stuff like that....soon after that, I was on bussiness trip for 2 weeks and all that time we kept the nice conversation over the web cam...it was kinda weird for me but she insistet so I played along...

When I came home we finally meet in real life and i was very surprised the way she acted ...especially I surpised with kino escalation cause she was complaint on my EVERY move...and she touched me alot and ye i know you probaly think why i dint close the deal that night. Well the answer is simple, she is in a relationship and I dint want to make her a cheater, because earlyer she was talking about how much she hates that...now this was maybe stupid but i do kinda have no cheating policy(is that stupid?)

Ok, so yesterday I told her break it or take. To end her dead relationship and take me or let me go. Then she started to give me bullshit that its complicated and that she doesnt want to be the one who will end it(the guy cheated on her and she knows that...i dont understand how can she forgive something like that...)...anyways....she cried all night and couldnt sleep cause of that(and fails the exam at college )...

I would usually just move to the next girl...but i kinda like how her eyes spark when she looks at me...Any suggestion where should i take this? What next? I dont know what to do in this situation, and its really weird cause I finnaly met a "hard to get" girl for a relationship. I really dont wanna be her friend, cause i really have enough of that...

p.s
I tryed jealousy...and all i do with that is make her very sad and pissed...and when i do that usually im to cruel...any suggestions how can i be subtle with that?

Thank you for you time. Sam.

Problem: (as I see it): You fell for someone who couldn't catch you.
Analysis (as I see it): People are more motivated by their fears/insecurites than anything else. Her fear of the unknown (you) is greater then the pain of her current relationship. IMO she was kino you and wanted you to get like this to give her validation and bring up her self-esteem from the shitty relationship she was in. This same thing happened to me earlier this semester bro. That's where I'm getting this from.



Solution: (as I see it): When anyone women or man stays in a relationship when they are not happy and/or they have been cheated on it is generally because they have low self-esteem. This should be a turn off to you. Look at yourself bro, you are fucking awesome! She's the one with the issues- don't make them yours. My ex had crazy low-self esteem and believe me toward the end no amount of sex or how hot she looked could outweight the drama and bullshit she brough to the table.

My 2 cents
Egokiller

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