Hey guys,

So I was gaming this HB. She was very flirty, but giving me major shit tests. I was handling all of them very well. I could see her being amazed by how I handled them every time.

So at one point she says I was making her nervous by looking at her like that (long eye-contact). We were in her room when she said it (met that day in the park). She said it with the same smile she had with all the shit tests. So I interpretated it as another shit test. Though I wonder if that was my Q to escalate.


I had other girls saying this, and I always interpretated it as an IOI. But this shit testing girl had me confused.


*NOTE* I know her for about 14 years, from childhood. So when she met me after my big change (confidence/body language/tone/alpha behavior), she was kinda blown away, and I was no more in the friend-zone. But it was way harder to read her IOI's, because we know each other that well.


Jabba

She's into it bro, no worries. Her comment was another sh*t test.
Women love a hint of danger and uncertainty. Why do you think bad boys ALWAYS get the girl?

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Yea I know she was, we made out later. That's not the point
I'm just trying to analyze it.

When a girl says "You are making me nervous, when you look like that", and no, she will not mean creepy , is that rather a shit test or a Q to escalate?

Both...I would have taken the opportunity to escalate.

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Yeah ok, next time I'll just follow my guts

Cheers

Yea, if you were not falling for your shit tests, and she is not use to that, then she was out of material and just being honest. Almost sounds more like last minute resistance.

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This was would have been the perfect opportunity to engage Mystery's kiss gambit:

You: *Put your finger over her lips* "Shhhh......you talk to much. Would you like to kiss me?"

HB: "Yes" = KISS HER

HB: "Idk/maybe/I'm not sure" = You: "Let's find out." *KISS HER*

HB: "Not here....." = You: "I understand." *Next time you are both alone together KISS HER*

HB: "No." = You: "I never said you could, you just seemed like you had something on your mind." *Avoided rejection*

Hehe i know the M kiss-gambits;)

I'm more a fan of gambler's non-verbal escalation theory though

Definitely interested man. Women like to feel nervous (to a certain degree of course haha).

look at her in the eye
lean in till your inches away
maintain eye contact
smoothly say "do i make you nervous now"

them bam!

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Haha I like. Will remember that one Smouth

[quote="Smouth"]look at her in the eye
lean in till your inches away
maintain eye contact
smoothly say "do i make you nervous now"

them bam![/quote]

I like that. Thanks for sharing.

tis alot easier to come up with stuff when your not in the moment

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