Ok so... A while back i was really into this girl, we'll call her Kathy. And we had kind of bad fallout where I told her how I felt, and got rejected. Things got ugly after that, and we haven't talked since, but i still have strong feelings for her. She has made repeated attempts, but I also shut her out, because of the situation we went through.

So fast forward to now. I have recently gotten in touch with a really good friend of hers, and she keeps telling me about this Kathy girl, and it's really making me wanna get in touch with her again.

So this is where you come in. I am pretty good with meeting with the ladies, But I have never tried to get someone who has Previously rejected me. Does anyone have any tips for me, on how I can better my chances of landing this girl this time around

One-itis search for it... it's a horrible disease and I think you've got it... If you want help with it, come back... theres still hope

Wait a minute. While you DO have one-itis yourself, it sounds like she does too, for you. If that's true, tell her friend to have Kathy give you a call if she has the guts to. Since she rejected you, have her to initiate the call. Go from there. But always remember, YOU keep the frame while you interact with her.

I say "fuck it" just be cool and relax. Since you showed much hurt before, i'd chill with her now. Maybe u her and the mutual friend could chill or have the friend tell her to call you if she wants to catch up. But when you do see her whatever you do don't act all hurt, don't even mention it. Make your life seem fun and exciting even if you have to embellish a bit and even be charming to a couple other girls in the setting. If you play it cool and use the body language and other methods of game during this interaction you will be golden. And dont complement her too much or show too much interest keep it casual but charming.

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A very difficult task. Women feel more and think less. She may "miss" you, but does she want to have sex with you (what you need)? Unlikely. Gamers typically get over a "special" girl by dating a half dozen other girls.