I don't agree with everything David D says but he has allot of good advice.

Yeah I'm going to be honest with, I though touching a girl is hard, But is not when you do it playfully.

walk up to your target, deliver the opener, then lightly touch her arm or shoulder while you deliver another opener after her first response. Am I getting this right?

Yeah, you just need to be a touchy guy... not in a creepy way, your just touchy feely.

I'm personally a big shoulder toucher and big hugger, those two are just natural kino for me... in the more comfort stages I'm big on the holding both hands while facing eachother thing. Also I like to do alot of playfull kino... reaching out with one finger and poking her arm while saying aloud "poke" with an almost childish giggle, patting her on the head especially if she's short.

Everyone has thier own kino style I'd say, you just need to figure out what kinds of kino feel the most natural to you... the more natural you are about it, the more effective.

That is god-damn interesting...
thanks for that, I will definitely try to throw in some more kino now.

Great post. Im definately gonna use this.

-Titan

Great info. Kino is very important, and very hard for a lot of people. You need to feel comfortable doing it, but you need to do it a lot first before you get comfortable.

Practice practice practice.

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Went to a party yesterday and actually used a slap to my advantage. The convo went into the whole sex-bondage realm and I confessed that I could never use cuffs but I could be slightly violent if it was a turn on. But of course 'I could never hit a sweet girl like you.' She replies: 'go for it' .. 'you'd have to hit me back though' .. 'sure' .. 'no, I can't' -- she pressures, I refuse again, she pressures again, while she pressures I give her a decently firm smack on the cheek. She returns the favour. 'That felt kinda good!' 'Yea, it did.' Offer to do it again sometime and close.

So yea, even violent kino can work.

I would never hit a girl unless she absolutely begged me to, and then only if she signed her name on the dotted line first.

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great job on that post great article

Yea man great post.

I use kino after I say my opener, and just a a false disqualifier or 2. I love doing the pushing and pulling stuff, it really works wonders.

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Thats also why its important to touch a women before you kiss her....

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Ya whenever I talk to girls at parties I do that. Like if they say something that I'm interested in (genuinely or not lol) I go "no way, me too" and like grab her hand with both of mine in that whole like valuing her "uniqueness" lol. It may sound lame but bullshit like that works.

Wow this will be my very first post on this forum...

Basically I have been reading what you guys were saying about using kino to get the girl who wants to be "Just friends". I am in a very similar situation, however it is made more awkward by the fact that the girl in question is my BEST friend.

I met her about 5 months ago and I went through the whole thing where I really liked her but she wanted nothing more than my friendship. Even though I kinda got over her a little since then it really eats at me that I was never able to get with her. Could kino help me this time? or is the best friend thing gonna be too tough to break.

Cheers

i totally agree with your post on kino, im new to PUA stuff still, but when i tried it on this HB8 catholic girl, ive been seeing the difference, all i did was playfully touch her legs/ arms, and feet and later she was so much more friendly and open with me more, and even tried starting convo sometimes