So I'm a pretty eligible bachelor, good looking, hit the gym regular, own my own business, home and a nice ride - I don't have problems picking up ladies - but I net one last weekend that has screwed my head.

All in all a crazy weekend, clubbing etc - I head to a party with a few friends and this girl is along with them too, long story short we head back to my friends place after the club (just us), only downside is that I'm so drunk I can barely stand - yet she's still seems mad keen - I'm like, ok but don't expect any action I'm ruined - we make out but pretty much just fall asleep together - although we kissed and she did blatantly ask me to fuck her - unfortunately in no fit state to oblige.

We arrange that she will come visit me the following weekend (today intact) all week she seems very keen - sends me a few nice pics by txt etc.

I text last night to see what time she plans to arrive (she lives 100 miles or so away) and which station I should meet her - and by reply she basically blows me out and says she can't travel that far at the moment due to exams etc but I should meet her for drinks if I'm near her - so happens I will be in the next few weeks so I say I'll give her a call - she says this sounds perfect...

Now, I pickup a lot of girls, in fact I picked up and nailed another night before last but I'm still really wanting to meet this girl - we really seemed to have a lit in common and she really is smoking hot (but knows that a bit too much I think).

So what's the deal boys, how should I play this? Any tips greatfully received!

If it helps I can post the txt convo, but basically it's all positive till last night.

Also, while chatting in the club she says she has been hurt a lot, looks into my eyes and says "please don't hurt me" - I just replied "we've all been hurt, I'm not going to hurt you"... She's so hot this is actually true, I would stop the playing for this one.

So I'm thinking she might actually be keen despite the blow out and wants me to chase her more to prove my interest, I'm just stuck on how to do this without going beta.

I like to give advice, especially to newcomers. But honestly, I don't really see a problem here. I'm a college student, so I honestly understand how she feels right now. Final exams are tough as hell! Look, just maintain regular rapport over texts perhaps (even calls). For example, "how did your first exam go?" You can work this easily, I'm sure. But don't put your life on hold in the meantime; go out and have a fun time.

Well, you might not have thought much of what you posted - but that actually really helped me - so I say thank you!!

I never did uni / college so don't know how it is - this helped me understand and I think she appreciated the concern about her work etc.

Thanks again.