Hi everybody,

Last week, I was an a business trip and during the first day of a wine salon in Brazil I encounter 2 Beauty Queens (the Queen and her 2nd), well known in Argentina, the country I live. They were representing their country in the salon and were dressed all the way : crown etc. From now one, I'll call them BQblonde and BQbrunette.

Day 1 :

Kind of shocked (being in front of these two HB10 that are regularly on TV and cover of magazines), my first reaction was one of an AFC :
Me : Oh, are you two : ... ?
Them : Yeah
Me : Wow, we definitly have to take a picture together !
Them : okay, let's do it

Strange enough, that poor approach didn't blow me off and after the picture was taken, I began to chat with BQbrunette. She was really friendly and we chat for like 10-15 minutes. At that point, I hadn't pull any PUA tools and it was just a nice genuine conversation : exchanging names etc. Now, looking back to the situation, I think that the fact that I was living in the same city that they did and that I spoke spanish was for them kind of a recreation after a full day of being hitting on by heavy brazilian guys.

Then, knowing that they will be on that very same salon for three days, I just say : "hey, was nice talking to you. I've got to get back to work. See you around !"
At that point, I defined BQbrunette as my target and I knew I had to step up my game.

Day 2 :

The day after, after a few hours on the salon, I've got a very good energy because business is going fine. I decide to take a break and go back to the BQs. I pass very close to them pretending to be wine-tasting when BQbrunette sees me and calls me by my name. She says something to BQblonde which I guess was like : "here is the guy I told you about" because the lattest looks at me and ask me to get closer to them.

I get closer and after some meaningless chat, BQblonde begins to ask me a little questionnaire that she had prepared (I don't know why) :
BQblonde : red wine or white wine ?
me : red wine
BQblonde : asado (argentinian BBQ) or feijoada (brazilian traditional meal) ?
me : asado
BQblonde : Argentinian or Brazilian girls ? [I saw this as a shit test so after 2 or 3 seconds, I decide to go for the neg]
me : Brazilian girls
BQblonde : (kind of shocked) Really ?!! Wow, I don't want to speak to you anymore ! It's over !
[I just ignore her. After 15 seconds, she comes back to me]
BQblonde : Come here !
me : Is that an order ?
BQblonde : No it's not, I'm just asking you
me : say please then [neg]
BQblonde : please ...

So I come to her and start chatting and coming from nowhere she starts qualifying to me like crazy : I speak French (I'm French and she really didn't), I lived for a few months in Belgium and blahblahblah. Here, BQbrunette comes and says : "you two are so much alike, you look like brother and sister" (I'm blonde too, which is quite rare in Argentina, so beeing both blondes is enough to be considered alike). I continue teasing them a little bit : "wow, you're very motivated today, how many wines have you been tasting etc."
The things getting pretty good, I decide to go for the number close :
me : "hey, we should definitly meet when we are back in Mendoza"
both : "yes definitly"
but before I can ask for their numbers, their "boss" arrives and ask them to go I don't know where to do I don't know which official representation ... Anyway, I just say that I have to go to work anyway and that we'll meet again.

At that point, I'm kind of confused. During the interaction, it really appeared that BQblonde was kind of interested. I'm even pretty sure they had talked about me. But I had decided after day 1 that my target was BQbrunette.
Because I have suffered for so long having trouble deciding a target and stick to it, I decided to stick to my initial plan and try to close with BQbrunette even though it seemed I had a better chance with BQblonde and they were equally hot ! (I still prefer BQbrunette though)

Day 3 :

At that point, my only will is to get BQbrunette's phone number. When I come back to their stand at the end of the day, I go directly to BQbrunette. For the first time, they are seperated (BQblonde is like 10 meters away in another stand). I start talking to her and during the conversation she turns like 2 or 3 times to BQblonde who doesn't see me or pretend so.
That fact conforts me in the idea that I had a strong possibility with BQblonde, she liked me and had said it to her friend.
Anyway, I pretend not to notice anything and say
me : "ok, I really have to get going now but we should meet when we are back to Argentina"
BQbrunette : "definitely"
me : "ok, give me your phone number"
BQbrunette : "well, I can't give you my phone number"
me : "wow, why ? You're such a star now that you can't give you're number to anyone ? "
BQbrunette : "No, I'm not a star but I just can't. But, you should add me on facebook, my name is XXXX"
me : "Okay then, see you .."

And I just leave without a look to BQblonde.


Now my first question to you after this long story (sorry for that, I'm not sure everything is relevant but I wanted to give you the more details I remembered in order to have the situation right in your minds) :
- Was I right to stick with my first target knowing I had a better chance with the other ?
See, what I thought at that moment was that, changing target would make me a needy AFC when refusing the advances of a Beauty Queen (The Beauty Queen by the way) would give me a lot of value to the other HB.
On the other hand, I might have lost it with both of them ...
So I wonder how you manage this kind of stuff, do you simply set a target and stick to it or are you ready to change targets according to the situation and opportunities ?


Now, a few days later, I add BQbrunette on facebook adding this message : "Hey BQbrunette [her name really], it was nice meeting you even though you're such a star and you refused to give me your number. See you back home."
The idea of the message was to make her accept me : to show me that she's not this kind of girl and that she's not a star, she will have to accept me.
Which she did a few hours later with that message : "Hey, how're you doing ? I'm fine, back home. It was a pleasure meeting you too. It's for protocolar questions that I'm not able to give my personal information. I hope that you are well. Kiss"

So know comes my second question : what shoud I do now ?
I think I should definitly go for a date by asking her on facebook (I don't have a choice in the matter). Now, since she's not any girl, I need a very good date idea ? If you can help me in this ..

Thank you for your help, I appreciate it