Soooo im in my second semester in college and its the first day of class (physics - shoot me) and i look around at the sea of asian chicks and idian guys (engineering program) and i notice this HB9, but of course shes sitting at the other end of the class.

I tell myself everyday i have that class that i will go and talk to her but never do. I even get some serious eye contact with her where we hold our gazes for like 4 seconds.

I catch her starring at me all the time during class, im wondering is it too late to go up and talk to her bc u feel like a lost the window of opportunity.

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spanky

Depends on how long its been and depends on the girl.

Some girls lose interest seeing you're a pussy if you keep looking at her and not doing anything.

Try this during class one day: making eye contact as you say you do, and then let out a little smile, maybe a smirk or something. See how she reacts to it. If she smiles back, you're good to approach her. If nothing, well you can still try, but maybe shes just shy.

And dude, its engineering lol, she HAS to be at least a little nerdy. And most nerdy girls can be intelligent. Intelligence is sexy and its easier to talk to the girl if shes smart.

-nick

true, thanks fot he advise. my mission is to pick her up this week

Anytime man, just let me know how it works out in a PM. =D

I have never had a college class were my seat was assigned to me...if your situation is such just get to class on time/early, sit next to her and run game.

If you cant sit near her then wait for her after class one day.

have some opener ready, DHV/neg a lil, and maybe bounce her someplace for an instant date.

I'd say if you got the EC going (you should always have a smile on your face when you make EC), then you good to talk to her

Good luck dude

true our seats arent assigned but she always comes late, im usually there 10 minutes earlier cuz i have a class right before


as for finding her after class, she somehow always vanishes

I'm sure she will be early one day and if she is then go open on her. If not than your only choice is to wait till after class.

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yo guys looks like she dropped the class, which is typical after the most ppl bomb the midterm...i found her on facebook through the class list...im skeptical about messaging her onf acebook bc i feel thats kinda stalkerish but i really want to talk to her...any ideas...oh and i never see he routside of class

I see 2 options. msg her on facebook with some kinda of unitrested message and see how she reacts, or find out were she is at at a certain time and be there some time, "by accident".

Probelm with messageing her on facebook is that while she might appear to be welcoming or glad you messaged her, she may be thinking "howd he get my page" or "whys he messageing me, i barely know him."

Other problem is like you said, you never see her...if you cant find out were she is gonna be at a certain time then your lost. If you do message her and then show up "magically" were she will be at this looks even worse, its one or the other. If you go with just bumping into her you have to either act totally surprised, or pretend you dont even know her and open her like anyone else.

GL

its only too late if you tell urself it is... then you'll feel like a chump. Go in thur and be like "Yo, lets go back to my place so i can hit that all nite."

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If you are so shy that you have to ask on a forum should you even approach her, your mission has to be just to start conversation with her cause even that will be big succes to you right now. It`s easy to say on a forum: "Hey, i`m going to pick up HB9 this week", but to actually do that is something different.

Don`t put such a pressure on your back from the start. You should be happy and proud for just approaching and openning without her turning away and blowing you off. Better stuff will follow but don`t expect musc from the first contact.

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Think how she's affecting you, taking up your mind most of the day, stressing you out and all she's doing is sometimes giving you eye contact. She's destroying you Now can you feel the anger biulding up? This chick thinks she's too good for you, "you have no chance with her" Well go and show her you won't stand for this shit she's lower then you! Just an average girl like all the others, neg her on how she can't hack it, that's why she left the class in a cocky/funny type of way, I like chatting to girls who think they are too good for me, as I have the adrenaline and determination to put them down in there place lol

Wow dude ok imma help you out on this one. DUDE lets start here. If facebook the only way you can contact her then do it. Act surprise, how you found out her page browsing or thru a friend page. Does she know anyone you know? Ask your friend if they know the girl. Ask her hey how you been I haven’t seen you in class or whatever. Ask her anything showing her IOI and heck if it doesn’t work out fuck it who cares and move on. You are asking for help when you’re the one solution. Stop thinking and start acting. That’s the only way you can find out. Hey how are doing I haven’t seen you for a long time what happen? Haha shit like that its not hard dude. You don’t need to come out with killer opening or dhv to a chick that uses to be in your class. Better yet you are DHV because she drop out of it and your still in there. Find out what other class she's taken and why she left that class. It easy and believe that and you should be good. Artist

p.s. i hope you really do TRY i mean it. Even if you fail you wont feel like a loser i will bet you on that.

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