long story short: this girl use to like me when i wasnt interested in her. now i'm interested and she's no longer interested. i went complete afc with this...even told her i liked her.

she's REAL flirty and touchy with me at work and i swear she's still interested, but this one text she referred to me as buddy so that really confused me. she responds to every flirt and often starts the flirt. anyways i asked her to get some ice cream at this popular place and she agreed.

how do i keep her entertained throughout the "date"? and how do i create more interest?

no help?

Don't bump your topics so soon. And as for your answer - read any PUA material book or just google "how to have a good date" or whatever, or look up articles on wikihow. Think first, ask questions later.

do you enjoy not being helpful? wikihow isn't a good source and neither is anything that shows up on google. they're all typical "media" results. what else is this forum for if not to ask questions to get RELEVANT answers

your response could be applied to ANY thread on here. don't post in my thread anymore.

It's not applicable to all threads - some questions are specific enough so that you can't find chapters about it in any PUA book, so they really require an answer. About keeping a girl entertained and having a good date, there are whole chapters for you to read. Nobody's going to spoon-feed all of it for you.

it's applicable to 90% of the threads made. and what part of "don't post in my thread anymore" did you miss?

i'll say it again, don't post in my thread anymore

banhammer inc

I don't think so. I help people a lot - people with actual questions that need real answers. You might notice that nobody else ran to your help either. How many books on dating you looked up since you opened the topic? As the proverb says, "The fried pigeon will not fly into your mouth.", pal.
Everyone on this forum who could help you (including me) learned what they know from reading and practice, and an occasional question when no other help was available. "How to have a good date" is a huge, huge topic with whole books dedicated to it. (Personally, I have about 10 ebooks dedicated only for this topic, and about 15 more have a chapter about it)
And if not books, then google. You say you found nothing? Nothing on the whole internet?
Here, the search was for "pua how to have a good date"; all of these are on the first and second page of results.

http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/ ... c/295.html
http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/ ... 20562.html
http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2004 ... first-date
http://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/3- ... break-you/
http://seductiontutor.blogspot.com/2006 ... -date.html
http://www.datingclass.com/articles/goo ... date.shtml
http://ezinearticles.com/?What-to-Talk- ... &id=107625
http://ezinearticles.com/?Simple-Dating ... id=6120609

And there you go, the results of google magic in two minutes. Voilà! You're welcome.
Think before you ask next time. Good luck on your date!

And now, with my catlike reflexes, I disappear. Now you see me, meow you don't!

For not I would highly recommend maybe breaking rapport a bit. Once you admit to liking them, you kind of lay all your cards on the table. Know what I mean? Just don't put all your focus on one girl. There is truth in the saying "there are plenty of fish in the sea." Go out and have a good time.

i decided to break rapport like you said. i think it helped. beetle said this wasn't specific so i'm gonna make it specific.
that ice cream date isn't gonna happen anymore either, she doesn't seem like she wants to go.
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Yes, ignore the note. It would be pointless to look to far into such a subliminal message on her account. The reason for this: anything you do to interpret this message will be jumping into her frame of reality. It's a lose-lose situation. Break rapport, and engage your other co-workers in front of her to show higher value and preselection. Personally, I don't sarge any of my coworkers beyond just hanging out as friends. My reason for this: to avoid drama.