Hey guys, I'm trying to make the story as short as possible.

So I got a number from a HB on POF, after a few messages exchange I decide to call her, we had a small talk but she was busy at the time so we end the conversation shortly.

A day later I call her (maybe being too needy?), and she was busy again, only had a few word exchange no chance to ask her out for a drink.

After that I ignored her for 3 days, but now she won't even answer my call or txt.

I know I did a lot of AFC stuff or maybe creep her out a little but what should I do now, how can I turn this thing around? Thank you so much guys.

Three strikes she's out?

Really you should have set the date on the first phone call. It should matter how short the phone call was, because that should have been the reason you called in the first place. You didn't call to chit-chat. You called to set a date. If she's too busy too settle on a time or place that's fine because you still set the tone that you want a date and you want to move things forward. I'm pretty sure she's already questioning if you're really someone she wants to go out with, which is why she is flaking. Personally, I would avoid drawing it out for too long by employing the "three strikes she's out" policy and moving on. Immediately. You've already tried to set a date three time and she hasn't shown interest. Move on. Your time is valuable. Value it.

Thanks Jaminv

You're right, I should have set up a date on the first call before she hung up on me. Now I learned my lesson, this girl is a cutie but man is she psycho or what??!!

First she said I'm attractive, and then the next you know she already ignoring all my txt. That's why I have to call her, try to game her on the phone. Maybe I should've take it slow.

Oh well I already got 2 new numbers, hopefully it will work out this time.
Thanks anyway

There's a delicate art to finding the right time to set a date with someone you met online, but I think really the sooner the better. Do not move too slowly online because online people are not real people. I'm including you in this as well. You're not really yourself if you're talking to someone online. It's not until you meet someone face to face do you really start to discover if there's actually any chemistry. It's then that you also discover if he/she was hiding some horrible truth through clever camera angles, old photos, or outright fakes. You do not want to be too invested in a woman when this happens. You probably don't want to try and ask for a date in your initial email (you can try, but I've never had any luck with this), but you want to set it as soon as possible after that. Asking too early is better than asking too late. If she says she's not ready yet, be understanding and work to establish some trust before asking again. If she really draws it out or gets angry for you asking, then you do not want to go out with this person. Either she's hiding something, is a flake, or has some really deep trust issues and will make you jump through inappropriate hoops. Meeting someone from online is not as scary as some women make it out to be, especially if it's meeting for coffee in a public place. If you can't get that out of a girl without making a huge personal investment, move on. You can even tell her openly: "I'm not willing to invest my time in someone that I haven't met in person. We can't really know if there's chemistry until we meet." If she doesn't understand that, then there's something wrong with her.

Thanks man

I have an other situation here, different girl this time, get her number smoothy, even I'm surprised how easy that was. but I can tell she has a great personality, easy to talk to.

Text back and forth a couple times, I ask if she wants to talk on the phone, she said she prefer texting for now, I said okay I respect that. So I guess right now I need to build more comfort in order to talk to her on the phone?