I met this girl at a party. We kissed on the dance floor, she was into me and I took her home.

We made out and eventually I got her topless but she refused to take off her pants. I didn't really want it either so I didn't push that hard.

She kept saying she isn't easy type of girl and if she's worth it I would ask her out to dinner. I called her a 'flaya' and she started become upset and wanted to go home. I had to do more comfort building with other conversation topics and she stayed over night.

We arranged for a shopping date the next day but she made some excuse about being busy. No big deal, I went with another girl and had a great time.

Anyway, over text she said things like

I am not just a girl who plays guys so im being open and real. I did enjoy talking to you though. I have a busy week

I hope you can respect that i want to take my time. we can hang out but i just dont want to lead you on or confuse myself.

I took her out to dinner and she talked A LOT which I should've stopped. But over dinner she talked about her past. It might be important that this girl is damaged. She was physically abused by her mother and her bf emotionally abused her for 2 years.

I asked her if she wants to be in a short term relationship. Here's her reply:

I dont even know what a short term relationship is, nor is that anything near the type of girl i am. But I hope we can be friends and im sure ill see you around! Hope youre having a great week.


LJBF right there. I already sensed that she wants to ljbf from those texts earlier but I was wondering if there are any way to save it.

I want to send her this text: "Nah you won't see me around unless you come over."

Thoughts?

meh.... drop her like a hot turd............

there plenty more chicks to meet (so dont give a fuck as much), who aint damaged..etc...

you will be better at the LMR next time....

Maybe she is too nice to play? You don't want to be messing round with a girl who has been abused, really. I wouldn't anyway