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It's fascinating to me that this little tale hails from West Africa; it seems the way they 'practice' the tale isn't too different from the ways of those old robe wearing folks in Asia. Those old guys NEVER tell you their answers, choosing rather to offer counterpoints and more questions. However, they do love sharing stories so here's a story that was told to me by one particular robe wearing dude a while back: (Attempting to do it in his voice as accurately as possible)

Hey, did you meet _____, the cute little 5 year old boy? He comes here every Sunday with his parents and he's full of mischief; he's always inspecting a new part of this temple. So I began asking him some questions, "Hey, where did you come from?"

After some thought, he answered, "I came from home!"

Quickly I added, "Where did you come from before that?"

He looked curious enough but threw his hands up and told me, "I don't know."

Every Sunday he came and every Sunday I would ask, "Hey, where did you come from?" And then I would continue to ask him, "Where did you come from before that?"

He's a smart boy. After many Sundays, I got him to continue back to the point where he answered, "I came from mommy's belly."

So I asked him, "Where were you before you were in mommy's belly?" Ha ha ha . . . this stumped him.

The first few times, he looked confused, curious . . . as if he was really thinking about it, and he would confess, "I don't know."

Of course I kept at it. . . and the next few Sundays, I could see he was trying to avoid me, ha ha ha. When I confronted him the last time and asked, "Where were you before you were in your mommy's belly?"

He stared at me with big enlarged eyes and screamed, "NOOOOOOO!!!!!!" Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha!!! . . . .

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(And the monk startled the shit out of me by screaming that "NOOOOO!!!!" with his huge freakin' eyes starin' down at my face.) - ha, ha, ha?
The onk is giving a line of interrogation which is both hard impossible for the boy to answer correctly and looks like it will go on for a long ass time. The boy has correctly refused to answer questions which he doesn't know.

I wonder what would happen if the Monk kept on asking.


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put the monkey in a cage


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"One thing only I know, and that is that I know nothing" - Socrate

I've read this entire post. Thought a lot about it. Came up with tons of conclusion. Figured out I know nothing. I could answer anything I want, I would never be sure it's the right answer.

Lets say I said the "good" answer. How could I be sure of it? Kasabi would tell me? How could I be sure Kasabi has the right answer? I can't. Why would I listen to him more than anyone else in this forum?

I don't know a lot about Koans, but I related this situation to philosophy. The two names that pops in my head are Immanuel Kant and Socrate.

What the monkey said can be interpreted in hundreds of different ways. About the death of your parents, he says it as if it would be a repercussion of what you decide to do. But in fact, he is only bringing up fact. Everybody will die, soon or later. Now, to kill the monkey or not to kill him? Whatever you do, you've done one of the two option he told you. So you've entered in his pattern. He is only bringing up fact.

Actually, everything he said is bringing up fact that would happen. He didn't tell the boy anything that he didn't already knew.

Kasabi, in this case. You made me think of Socrate right away. Walking around the town, asking simple questions, get into people mind.

People would actually follow him, and believe he is smarter than everybody else. Just because he kept asking questions that would screw everyone up. Just because he kept saying he is smarter than them. They would think it's true.

At the end, he got arrested, and killed. Some people couldn't deal with it. bvanevery would certainly be one of those people who got you arrested.

Anyways, the purpose of my reply? I don't know. Actually, I know nothing. And that's the only thing I can be sure of!

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Mumbo jumbo. Do you or do you not kill the monkey?

BTW, koans are pretty much the antithesis to philosophy. You may want to read up on them.
I wouldn't say they are the antithesis. More that they are a tottaly un-related kettle of fish!

In saying that Matt, you're taking a practical problem of kill or do not kill the monkey and turning it into a drone about philosophy.

Simple question for you now.

"Why did you do that?"


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I think they are related. Immanuel Kant once explained a situation that looked pretty similar to the "monkey mind". You are in a train. The track is splitting you in two. The train is currently going on the right track. You know there is 5 people that is stuck on the right track. There is 1 that is stuck on the left track. What do you do? You do nothing and let 5 people dies? Or you go in the left track, save 5 people, and kill one.

I think it sounds a little bit like the monkey mind. Just like the monkey mind, there is no good answer. You can't be sure of anything. What would happen if you decide to go on the left track and it turn out there is 5 people on it and only 1 on the right one?

People can't answer these kinds of riddle. Because there is no good answer.


To Fin, why did I do that?

I think there more than one reason. First of all, my opinion got influenced by other posters. If I didn't read all these different comments and attempts, maybe it wouldn't be so mind-fucking. Then, I think the main reason why I did that, is because I couldn't answer the question. And I didn't answer it yet. I'm only avoiding it.

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People can't answer these kinds of riddle. Because there is no good answer.
Interesting . . . you say "you don't know", and yet you've made up your mind that there is no 'good' answer to these kinds of riddles. You must think you know something about this riddle! What do you know?
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First of all, my opinion got influenced by other posters. If I didn't read all these different comments and attempts, maybe it wouldn't be so mind-fucking.
Interesting . . . you say "you don't know", and yet you've formed and influenced AN OPINION. How did you get derive an opinion from 'not knowing'?


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What I know about these riddles? They represent a practical situation. But the real answer is way deeper than any usual "practical" situation.

So, what I know about this riddle? It's complex.

What "I don't know"? The practical answer. To kill or not to kill the monkey.


Now, I feel like I'm only getting into these details because I can't find the answer...

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What I know about these riddles? They represent a practical situation. But the real answer is way deeper than any usual "practical" situation.

So, what I know about this riddle? It's complex.

What "I don't know"? The practical answer. To kill or not to kill the monkey.


Now, I feel like I'm only getting into these details because I can't find the answer...
Do not think of it like a riddle with an answer, the answer is not the point.


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The Important part is here > Your thought process
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The problem is only there so that you can observe the manner in which you react to it.

Tottatly different goal, skill and strategy to continental and analytic traditions of philosophy! Think less "What is the answer?" and more "Why am I thinking THAT?"


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A young boy went into the bush to hunt with his bow and arrow. He saw a monkey on the branch of a tree and aimed his arrow. The monkey spoke to him, "Stop. You must think before you shoot me. If you kill me, your mother will die and if you do not kill me, your father will die."
The way I see it(I didn't read the whole topic so some may have written this already) :
The very act of thinking always implies two ways. You divide events into "the good and the bad" apparently but... which ever way you take, you will never be satisfied.


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Now i think i'd kill the monkey if he's killing someone i love. little bastard.

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What I know about these riddles?
Nothing.
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They represent a practical situation.
This one represents nothing.
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But the real answer is way deeper than any usual "practical" situation.
How can you know if the answer is deep or shallow or practical or impractical if you know nothing?
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So, what I know about this riddle? It's complex.
Can nothing be complex? Maybe . . .

^Once you can achieve 'really know nothing', then you'll have it. You said, "I don't know anything," but you know too much. Really "know nothing" and you'll figure it out. To really know nothing is not the same as ignorance.


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Fun to watch . . . If you're interested, check out some of his other videos on youtube. Master Seung Sahn is well known for his koan teachings . . .

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iinZt0mTn_g[/youtube]


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Yesturday, I couldn't sleep. So I thought about the whole monkey mind thing for a while. After a while

Then, I started to realize something. When I saw Kasabi's reply. It all became clear to me.
I was saying something, but acting in a complete different way.

The boy came to hunt, the monkey distracted him. Now, the boy is struggling to find a solution.
The other boy was trying to answer to the monk. When he realize he couldn't, he got mad. He was struggling to find a solution.
I've read the post. Got distracted by other reply. Struggled to find the "good" answer. After thinking about it, I realize I was doing the exact same thing. I even got angry for not being able to find a solution.

There's some things that you just can't answer. It's just a matter of fact. Why waste your time trying to find a solution. Where do we really come from? I don't know. Did God create humans or did humans create God? I don't know.

Now, I've stopped looking for "answers".
But if any of you ask me : DO YOU KILL OR NOT KILL THE MONKEY.

I would probably say the boy should kill the monkey. Only because it was his decision when he decided to go hunt. The monkey only distracted him by bringing up fact about life.

Am I right? Am I wrong? I don't even care anymore.

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