got a number from a hb8 last week, tried to call her this weekend on 3 different occasions but she never answered, so i delete the number. anyways i have her in class today and everything seems ok i neg her a little things are going ok, during class the lecture is getting kinda boring so i decide to throw my eraser at her, i do and it hits her and she gives no reaction, she sits right behind me btw, so after a few mins i throw a little wad of paper and she looks at my like what are you doing? so i just say nevermind and go about my business of taking notes. a little later i look at her and tell her "your no fun" and she says "sorry" and now i feel like a total afc/dumbass. what i should have done was stopped after i threw the eraser and acted like nothing happened. or not of thrown anything at all, but instead i was impatient and fished for a reaction, a reaction that i didnt like nor did i expect. i did save some face by not saying anymore about it or trying to talk to her after class. i just walked away like i was uninterested. i dont know if this is a salvageable situation, but if it is, i know i will have to play it ultra cool now and act uninterested, cause i dont want to convey needyness or come across as annoying.


in the mean time i will be persuing other targets.

so in posting this i hope you guys can learn from my mistakes.


comments and or advice welcome

skittlepimp

ive noticed that since i have played it cool and not said anything, that the hb8 has resumed rapport with me and seems to have some interest in me again. maybe this is because i have also moved my focus elsewhere, i dont know but let it be a lesson to all you out there that playing cool and not acting on the desire to talk about this incident with her has paid off.

maybe what i did was like a long ass freeze out, since i just forgot about her an didnt talk to her for several days.

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Skittlepimp

Calling on the weekend shows you have nothing to do on the weekend, which is a big DLV. Throwing erasers? Don't recall Mystery or Style mentioning that, but I haven't taken their high priced seminars either.

Think you did the right thing in the end, freeze her out...anytime a women doesnt give in you do that...doesnt call/go out/talk to you/etc...freeze out

throwing the eraser was just some spur of the moment idea i had, i was improvising, well i know what not to do now at least. i might try contacting her again sometime but im not gonna lose any sleep on this one, if anything happens good or bad ill post it.

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Skittlepimp

and keep in mind
if u do get another chance at this hb - it will def come up that u dont have her number

so make sure u have a good neg for her when she says "i already gave u my number"

tho im curious if u freeze her out long enough after re-rapport building if SHE will call U
let us know

cheers

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