Thanks guys, I appreciate all of your comments. I realize that by doing exactly the same thing that she did to me (albeit not purposely) that I was setting the wrong example, so I'll definitely avoid doing that in future, she said sorry to be a few hours after I posted this, so everything is good again, though I would like to get your opinion on something else.

Her ex boyfriend is a photographer, and she wants him to do a sexy photoshoot with her. It'd basically be her stripping down to her underwear and him taking pictures of her. I'm not generally the jealous or controlling type, but it has pissed me off that she wants to do this, and I don't particularly want her ex boyfriend taking half naked pictures of her. How would you handle it?

I suppose you should be happy she told you about this. She could have just done it, and not told you.

Would it be different if it was a random male photographer, or a female photographer? (IE is it the boyfriend thing, the pin-up photography thing, or both?)

In any case, you should tell her that it bothers you. If you don't mind the content of the photos, just ask her to find another photographer. She should be willing to compromise on that part, if there isn't something fishy going on.

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LOL wow... Yeah what Wal said, tell her you're uncomfortable with it, and tell her why you are. I swear....women..

It's definitely the fact that hes her ex boyfriend that's bothering me. I wouldn't mind if it was with a professional photographer because it's generally their job to do that, however, her ex boyfriend is an Amateur photographer, and simply the fact that hes her ex boyfriend and she'll be stripping down into her underwear, is bothering me. I'll let her know that I'm uncomfortable with it.