Well I took Mysterys advice on peacocking and it turned horribly bad. I wore these awesome looking glasses and when i went to the party everyone was just staring at me. I was like wtf? No one else there was peacocking and that shit was so intimidating. I saw girls eyeing me but I kept getting blank and losing my confidence. That was horrible yesterday. Any ideas of how to overcome this?

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Walk in public with your glasses.

Might want to try some newbie methods with the glasses on in public. Do that for a while and in no time you could care less what other people think about it.


If you approach a girl with outrages peacocking and show confidence, consider yourself in.

Yeah you need to build confidence. first like half 9 is saying.

but at the same time the purpose for peacocking is exactly what happen at the party. You drew everyones attention. now you just need to follow through with all the attention you are getting and go approach and be the center of attention all night![/url]

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that's the point of peacocking - ur SUPPOSED to stand out!

but like the other guys said - u need to be confident being the center of attention

do the newbie confidence building with those glasses elsewhere

and in the mean-time, get something new that tones down the peacocking - but is still unique and stand-outish

try something like a pendent chain - keep it simple - something that theyll notice when ur talking 2 them
or a different kind of t-shirt, flashy style

if ur a newbie and try to wear goggles and feathers like mystery - ur going to feel like an ass

remember he's an mPUA wearing that shit - he earned it, work ur way up too
peacocking is different for everyone - test what works for u and what u feel comfy in

cheers

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peacocking is not for the weak at heart - I wear Kandi bracelets as part of my peacocking

I really need to remember to get some of those. Especially the necklaces, where you put them onto a target and then eat them off her neck.

Ark, you definitely drew the attention that peacocking is supposed to, but if you're still not comfortable being the center of attention, then its gonna hurt you. Learn to love the attention, then you'll be able to pull of peacocking. If you own the look and are confident about it, then you'll go far with it because everyone will want to talk to you, but if you look unconfident, then everyone will make fun of you (even if you are confident you might get a bit of that, but then you AMOG or neg them back and establish a stronger frame than them.

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Thanks guys for helping. I just dont know to be more confident. Its much easier said than done. I talk to random people, make EC until they look away, anything else I can do?

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