Hey guys,
My name is Alejandro and I'm having a terrible problem I don't even know how to face.
I'm a confident man, I traveled abroad all by my own, I like to meet new challanges and basically from my technical skills up to my skills in bed, I know I can totally count on myself.
My problem I think is different, it's like even though I've had sex with 3 girls in the last month, when the last of them was really amazing, a 9 she's intelligent, Really good looking and has a really high confidence, I just can't feel the "wealth" around me. I find the girls almost entirely online, I can get a new phone number every day, and yet it's like I don't know where the next girl will come from so I'm chasing every misserable "piece of meat" I can find. I'm trying to recycle everything that I ever had when the girls turn to me even if they have totally humiliated me in the past.
I'm always stressed and want to look for "the one" when just a month ago I moved to the biggest parties city in my country, I should enjoy life here and bring a new girl to my appartment every day!
When I start dating a girl I can be OK on the phone before and on the first date, but even if she'll turn out to be really ugly, she'll probably get a second date, and I'll lose myself entirely, everything will be up to her when the "relationship" will end.
I always do it and it happened with the last girl as well, after a really "good" and intense week (we met like 6 times in 8 days, yeah I'm also stressed on that level and want to go out in every opportunity ) that we even made future plans for something in two weeks (yep, it's ridiculous when we know each other less than a week) she just broke up saying she's not into a relationship right now because she broke up with a guy a month and a half ago, now come on, I'm experienced enough to understand it, the sex was really good but you didn't attract me enough with your behaviour. The first date with her was brilliant, she wanted to bring me up to her place but her parents was there I even answered to that "You really think you're gonna get it that fast?"
The day after she took a cab to my place... She was totally in control in the bed, up to a point when I wanted to take her braw off, so I opened it and she stopped and asked me to put it back, and not only I did, I also asked for her permission to take it off a few minutes afterwards. On my way back to her place to accompany her, she said she's not sure what she wants from me, instead of telling her I dont know what I want because we've only met less than 24 hours ago I told her I want a relationship!! Do you understand how pathetic that was?!
And now for my question, how often is it that guys act so but so pathetic? and can someone offer a solution?

I would appreciate all responses!
Thank you guys
A.

Are you lonely? You have confidence in yourself, but do you have many close friends?

I ask because you asked for a relationship after 24 hours of knowing a girl, you need to feel an emotional connection to a girl and you are stressed about "the one"

Ever play with LEGO as a kid? "The One" is like the LEGO piece you are looking for when all your LEGO is mixed up in 1 box. When you are searching hard for that LEGO piece, you rarely found it in amongst the mess, but when you werent looking for it, you found it.

Do you know what you want in a relationship? If not work it out. From the sounds of it you have very little criteria if you ask a girl for a relationship so soon, unless of course she somehow checked off all those boxes (I doubt it as you only knew her a short time)

I'm confused, you shagged a 9, but now your struggling/ Do what you used to do before, when you shagged the 9 .....

Hi,
Yes I have some close friends, as a matter of fact, most people I consider as my friends are pretty good friends of mine.

That's the thing! It's like I'm so stressed with finding someone I'm probably the last selective guy in the world (that's how I got 3 girls to my bed last month, and no, I'm not proud of it...)
The 9 girl came from a dating site, obviously I didn't and I don't know her enough to tell you already I think she's the "best" for me, it's like I'm living in scarcity