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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 9:06 pm 
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hello I am en 17 year old guy,
Last week I noticed a girlfriend of mine was interested in me so I thought about it and the more I looked at here the more I liked her. last week I was at a BBQ (she whas there too) and I don't know how but she we were the hole evening preety into eachother) like hugging and she was laying in my arms. but now eveytime I want to make my move I get scared. I am not that confident. and now I don't really know what to do? can somebody give me some advice??


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 9:37 pm 
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Think "Eh, fuck it, what do I care" and right as your mind would try to answer, just do whatever you wanted to do. It worked for my problems.

Or just set your mind to rules. Like the three-second kiss-closer - You let the conversation trail off, look into her eyes, and if she looks back three seconds, you go in. You don't have to ponder yes or no anymore, just roll with the rule.

Anyway, after a few times of succeeding, you don't care anymore because you know it'll work.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 9:44 pm 
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I think you like her because she is interested in you. That is not exactly a position of power to start. How did you 'notice' ?

The particulars of how are less important than the doing. The longer you wait the more difficult it will become and the more chance she will lose interest/move on.

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