today i again called her out but she was in totally bad mood and when i tried to kiss her she just avoided and told me that she needs time
then she started flaming me why i dont find us anything interesting to do ( i suggested 3 things she denied everything) and that she is bored cos we are doing nothing

it pissed me off so i just walked home

Do that more. Stay there.

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When in Doubt, Freeze Her Out.

i have a feeling that she is just using me i am going away for 2 days today and if she wont contact me within them i am sure what i have to do then

i cant believe that she needs time and doesnt even want a kiss

Next time she says something to you, just say, "Leave me alone, you're the opposite of what I look for in a girl."

Drop her, dude.

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"I want to stand as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all the kinds of things you can't see from the center."

"I'm going to give you a definite... maybe."

hey, im kinda in the same situation SPAM

My girlfriend lives in QLD and has for the last 3 months
Before this we lived together and I couldnt move up there with her so i moved back home. I went up nearly every second weekend to spend some time with her.

During my last trip she said she was planning on moving back down. I was all good with that i was actually pretty happy.

But later that week she started giving me single word responses to texts and when i asked her what was wrong she said "I don't know, something has changed" and i was confused as all fuck.

I gave her space for a week and then called her and she said she wants to continue how we were when she gets down her but for now for me to give her space! Im still confused about it! And it fucking hurts at time.

I wish I could give u some advice about it but i cant. Im just saying your not alone and there are some real bitches out there you enjoy toying with us

You also have to realize that women are completely insane. They may not be toying with you-- it may just be their natural mood swings and hormone cycles.

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When in Doubt, Freeze Her Out.

I completely agree with you. Some women are insane......but the question is y do they do that! Screw hormones....

Why? Because they're nuts. They operate based on entirely different decision-making processes than men do.

Men tend to think rationally, then come to a decision. Women tend to come to a decision intuitively, then rationalize the decision they have already made.

Strangely, the intuitive decision-making process is often faster and more reliable than the rational process in many situations.

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so would u recommend just waiting it out and see what happens?

Hopefully she makes the right decision

Women view us guys as the bad ones. All women are bitches, they don't give a shit about you. You break up with a girl and tell her she's a good person but you just don't want her anymore but yet when a girl breaks up with you she acts like a bitch. I guess you just have to be relentless with them.

And when you're one guy going after a woman whose with a group of women, it's as if all their pussies get lit and protect their little friend from you. What's worse is that if you're a really attractive guy, they all know they'd secretly fuck you. It pisses me off, it's like, "Get the fuck out of here you two-face."

It doesn't really make sense. If girls are more attached to their fathers, they shouldn't be bullshitting so much.

My first instinct after reading this post was to disagree strongly, but the more I thought about it, I can't help but feel like you hit the nail on the head.

That is exactly why you need to establish your dominance early on in a relationship. No, you don't need to have the most dominance or control, but you need to show her that you aren't going to be a little bitch and allow her to walk all over you.

I sort of think it's pretty important to drop women on the first sign of nutty behavior. Or if you end up feeling unpleasant fairly early on. Drop her. Don't chase, especially not crazy chicks or women who are unstable for some other reason. Can be pretty hard to do this but I think it's for the best.

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When in Doubt, Freeze Her Out.

Does anybody else think this thread is full of unhealthy attitudes about women, and bad advice to boot?

Keep applying pick-up tactics to relationships and you'll get the same result every single time.
What is the isinsistence about ALL this and ALL that, as if there is no alternative? I hope you guys aren't talking about my mom, my sister, my girlfriend, or my best friend. Chris, Snarg, whoever else read this and agreed with these sentiments... you guys live in a very dark and alienating world. I hope you find your way out of there.

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- Lux et Veritas -

"All" doesn't always literally mean "all".