so this girl that is a friend of a friend and i have been hanging around lately and doing cool stuff and i can see some attraction coming from her. she has been a friend of mine for about a year now but ever since i started using some of the pua stuff i have learned, i can see she sees me in a new light (because the whole year we kind of just recognized each other but never hung out. the thing is two weeks ago, we were both at a party hanging out and i was in the stage where we get to know each other and stuff and then her old amog boyfriend comes in and starts flirting with her. it was weird because he was naturally doing what i wanted to do... only better than i could do lol. but the thing is i saw myself losing value staying there so i just simply left and hung out with some of my other friends. about 20 minutes later she comes over to see what i'm up to and i basically block her out of the conversation with a cold shoulder and she went away. the next thing i know i look over and see the two of them making out. i am steaming because the whole night i was trying to seal the deal but this guy stole her from me (guess it happens :/ ). but right after that luckily a bounch of my other friends (5 girls) call me up and was like "were bored lets hang out". so i made sure to be loud and was like "well girls are calling me so i have to go". i think she got disappointed when she had the selection, i just gave her nothing and then completely left for more girls because a few days later she seemed really curious as to where i went.

two weeks goes by and i dont think she has been seeing the amog. i think they were just both drunk (and i know he was so drunk he passed out so he ended up walking home by himself lol). but anyway... she starts texting me. here is our conversation:

HB: "Are you going to the meeting tonight?" (we both belong in the same club in college)

Me: "Sadly no. My work scheduled me even though i asked for wed off"

HB: "Lame! We're voting on tshirts! What will happen now that you're not there? So sad."

Me: "Haha totally. What are you doing friday?"

HB: "I'm going to a birthday party. What are you doing? Ps you can come if you want. It's a big kid's party."

Me: "Haha. Well i was going to go bowling with some friends. Its my only day off so let me see whats going on"

HB: "Ok well by big kids i fan drunk. Jenna decided to bail per usual and i could totally use my one and only beer pong partner! Ha ha, but yeah we should hang out eventually! And do something."

HB: "Sounds lilke you desperately need me haha. Ill give you a call when i know whats up"

HB: "Sounds good dude. Have a good time at work."

Me: "Thanks!"

----The next day after work I call and leave a voicemail saying that my plans with my friends fell through so i can go to the party with her and i told her to call me back and tell me the details of the party. She responds with a text 30 minutes later:

HB: "Hey dude sorry i missed your call! I'll give you tomorrow about the party! Hate fun at work."

Me: "Thanks. 'hate fun'? Haha you bad texter. Jk. See ya tomorrow"

ok so for you more advanced guys. this is a weird situation. should i keep playing selective and uninterested in her sexually or should i evolve my gameplan a bit. she also told me about a week ago that she isnt looking for a boyfriend while she is in school. should i take that as she is baiting me or she is looking for one night stands. should i push her buttons to find out or do you think that will hurt our friendship.

thanks for reading the long post. hope you guys can help me

obviously ull have a better read on the situation than anyone
i can only get what u type here
but from what i can see - there is def some flirting going on

and where theres flirting - theres an exit from the LJBF zone

as for her telling u that she doesnt want a bf while in school - shes saying shes in her experimenting slut phase like most girls in college
thats def a green light for a FB or one-nighter

i think u should have no prob making the next step - college is about hooking up with ur female friends dude - ur all drunk all the time

keep hanging out with other girls when shes around to keep the jealousy factor goin
plus def be her beer pong partner - easy to build rapport and comfort - neg her when she misses - this is such an easy way to get to a hookup

then its college so all u have to do is say at the end of the party that u wanna watch a movie - and thats it let the hook-up begin
just make sure to act like its no big deal - and that can protect ur friendship if ur worried about it being weird
need any more specific advice feel free to pm me

cheers

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thanks man. i'm not just hung up over one girl so i am willing to try some stuff tonight. i'll let you guys know how it goes. thanks again