Hey guys,I've been gaming an HB10 for the past week & a half.

She'd flaked on me twice during that time.

But that's a whole different story.

Anyway,Im just curious as to her intentions here.

She's engaging in texting,and she's pretty much open & attracted for sure.

But Im just hoping she not taking me for a ride and being an attention whore.

So,she texted me asking "what's up"?

I wasnt doing shit but lying down,but of course Im not gonna say,"Im doing nothing".

So I said,"Im pretty busy soughting out my wardrobe for going out tonight,plus Im chatting with friends".

She text me back saying,"Im not doing anything;call me when you're done".

Of course I didnt call her right away,nor at all.

That was over an hour ago.

My thing is guys,is this chicc just an attention whore or is she genuinely seeking a connection(rapport & comfort)?

She flaked on me twice due to lack of comfort building(by me),so Im definitely looking to build comfort.

But Im trying to avoid being that guy she talk to just because she's bored.

My intention is 'solely' to lay her.

She flaked twice(lack of comfort,plus I might've been a tad bit too sexual via texting).

But is there a way to know if a girl's seeking attention with no hopes of meeting up,than if she's genuinely wantng to connect with the hopes of meeting(eventually)?

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Can't be sure, but since she texted you to say "I'm texting a few other friends" or whatnot, clearly she is getting attention from other people as well, but I mean that;'s normal. But the reason she did that to you alone and texted you right after means she might try to keep you interested in her as a "Back up boy".

I say this because my friend has the same problem. A girl texted him whenever I hung around him and he got all happy. But she was just stringing him alone just for the fact that is she loses a potential interest, she can always go to him.

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@Anti-Lover-Im definitely tryna avoid the situation your friend was in.

But in fact,it was I who told her that
I was busy with friends.

She was basically texting me to chat or text,but I told her I was busy.

I just dont want to be the guy a chicc reaches out to just cause she's bored.

I dont mine being a back-up guy neither-just for the record.

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Oh, I reread it. My bad. But I see what you mean. You don't want her to see you as a momentary entertainment lmao. Just say your busy and keep doing what you are doing. Soon, if she's worth it, she will contact you to set up a date. But I am eager to read what everyone else has to say about this.

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Anti-Lover-Well that what I plan on doing.

But she is proactive on text game and wanting to chat.

We'll see how it goes.

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Anti-Lover-Well that what I plan on doing.

But she is proactive on text game and wanting to chat.

We'll see how it goes.

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Anti-Lover-Well that what I plan on doing.

But she is proactive on text game and wanting to chat.

We'll see how it goes.

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I've been in the exact same position with a 9

She suggested a meet , and is super healthy on the text game

But she would flake when it comes to the day

When ever I have a problem with a girl , I use their own tactics again them , so in this case I got her agreed with a meetup and when it came to the day I flaked her instead

But she stopped responding after that then told me she was not interested on Facebook..

She flaked me 2/3 times and I just flaked her 1 time..!?

I don't regret using that tactic because I found out the truth, it may work with your girl but use at own risk , it didnt work in my case, for more info seek "brad p slow track" technique

You can give her an ultimatum "listen Im not gunna be your text buddy forever , you seem cool and I would like to find out more about you but your very flakey...I know we had a brief interaction which is why you may be hesitant and shy...so meet me on fri text 1 for yes and 2 for definitely if not then all the best "

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perhaps its her way of shit testing you bro. She will be expecting replies because a HB10 will always get replies, if you don't reply she'll find someone else.

I can remember a similar situation I was in however with a HB8, not 10. By pure chance I ended up gaming a 5/6 and subtley let her know about it. This had never happened to her before I think cause she would try to get my phone and call/txt her and Im sure she was did jealous with a lot lower self esteem. Perhaps you could use a minger to get her jealous and take her down a peg or 2 then carry on game her when shes ready to be accepted again with her new lower social status.

Cant say its definitely gonna work as mine was with a HB8, but might be worth a try.

Also

When a Girl texts "hi/what's up"

She is just pinging you

Don't give her anything more such as

you-"hi there"

(this will force her to invest since she can feel she is losing you)

If you reply with "hi name! How are you? What are you doin today? Let's meet! "

(you are supplicating like the rest of the guys that text her)

Her-hi

Me-hey

Her-I'm just having pizza

Me-ok

Her-wasup with you today?!

Me- just busy with a friend

When you get momentum and she has fought for your attention you can back to being funny/playful and work for the meetup

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Step 1 - go back in time to "Im not doing anything;call me when you're done".

Step 2 - call soon after and tell her you are having a wardrobe malfunction and are going to the mall. You will get her on the way/meet her there.

Instant answer. If she's suddenly busy then you can write her off.

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@Pebble-You have a lot of good insights on this.

I'd pulled a flake on a girl before who flaked on me few times.

I dont regret such games since it really reveals the girl.

Another great point you made was about not over texting.

Im a texter so I find myself writing novels at times-which DLV' me.

But with this chic,I've been by the PU book-my msgs are short as hers.

I dont over invest.

I did get an intense urge to say,"Im good,whats up?Let's meet up...".

@Loupe-Yea she's definitely a shit tester.

She's the 1st.girl I've ever rated a 10 in the past 5 years.

She tells me she's currently texting like 4 other guys;I can believe it since she's an HB10.

Oh yea,Im a master a jealousy plots.
To game a less hotter girl would definitely make her insecure.This' part of my social repetoire.

Never really tried with this girl.

@Infamous110-Cool idea.To invite her along to something that chiccs love would be genius.

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@Pebble-You have a lot of good insights on this.

I'd pulled a flake on a girl before who flaked on me few times.

I dont regret such games since it really reveals the girl.

Another great point you made was about not over texting.

Im a texter so I find myself writing novels at times-which DLV' me.

But with this chic,I've been by the PU book-my msgs are short as hers.

I dont over invest.

I did get an intense urge to say,"Im good,whats up?Let's meet up...".

@Loupe-Yea she's definitely a shit tester.

She's the 1st.girl I've ever rated a 10 in the past 5 years.

She tells me she's currently texting like 4 other guys;I can believe it since she's an HB10.

Oh yea,Im a master a jealousy plots.
To game a less hotter girl would definitely make her insecure.This' part of my social repetoire.

Never really tried with this girl.

@Infamous110-Cool idea.To invite her along to something that chiccs love would be genius.

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Let us know how is goes man, I'd like to learn from this post also

At the end of the day ultimately the girl has the power if she wants to Fuck you or not An she will have abundance of penis wanting her..

Which is why pushing her away Is a good move "your too sweet for me/I don't think you could handle me"

I knew someone who got their "10" by telling her

Him- "I've met someone, I'm sorry"

Her- why?

Him- I guess it was bad timing

Her- I wanted to meet up with you..

Him- it's not facebook official yet but I guess I can give you a little chance if you are extra charming..

Her- lol when?

(she paid for drinks etc and successfully seduced him)

This works on 10's especially , Because a girl like her has never been rejected off a guy , but again , use at own risk , but isn't this what game is..? , it's doing what most guys don't do and being willing to walk away enables you to get the girl..

The more you go for the meetup and the more she flakes yiu the more stupid/DLV'd/beta you look..

Goodluck bro

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@Pebble-Good advise again bro'.

I made the mistake in the past where I'd DLV'd myself by pushing for a meet up.

I ended up getting frustrated and sent her a bad text cursing her out.

I've been tempted to go there with this flakey chicc but Im being strong.

But Im aware that the hotter the girl,the more nonchalant the guy should be as if he doesnt care too much to meet up.

I'll keep yall posted.

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