This is my first field report. I went to a bar with some friends from school. One girl there I really didn't know but turns out she's in my class. I'm not very experienced at PUA so try to play Mr. Social by jumping into conversations and trying to connect.

I can't remember too much specifics but HB8 and I would get into a talking over each other match, and always BS about stuff to her so she's curious, and I did try the thing I read about where you don't answer one of her questions no matter how much she asks. I can't tell if she's interested, and there were 2 other guy friends (1 married, 1 trying to hit it) which puts the odds against me. I did hold my own in talking to her but since there were other friends it was impossible to isolate and escalate.

What I learned:

- I am uncomfortable in bar/club settings. I'm not a drinker and am unfamiliar with the vibe. This I have to get used to.

- Trying to get attention from a girl is counter-productive when she has choices. I'm the car salesman trying to win business from the customer, which is hustling backwards. I should be the customer getting to choose which dealer to work with.

- I don't have any sexual experiences but am curious about a lot of fetishes. This makes me talk heavy but no action, and I do get a bit flustered having to tone it back for fear of people finding out I'm a virgin.

- I need to do more invest more emotions into myself. I don't get emotional much and it makes it hard to relate when women love that stuff.

1st point: you don't have to be a drinker thats not necessary, but you should learn to be more of an alpha male that will solve issue number 1

2nd point: don't try to too win girls over with telling them your fetish unless you know they like it. because if it's some F***ed up fetish they will be freaked out.

3rd point: being able to hide emotions is good, because even if she hits you with a low blow and sees that it doenst affect you