Ok, this will be my first field report.

I went to a small cocktail bar with my old wingman. He now has a relationship, but now and then he helps out.

We went into the bar, crossing a first group of mixed crowd. Age: 22-25, about 10 people. I immediately noticed a redhead. I didn't show any particular attention. We sat down for couple of cocktails, I was just chatting to my friend. After 15 min he went to the toilet to check out the rest of the bar, but did not find any other challenges. He went back to me, and we took a quick peek to the guys surrounding the redhead. These guys were really trying hard to impress her, so we knew odds were good. Next step was to find a way to get her away from her fanboys. When she passed by (I know, I was lucky), I just said to her that I was discussing with my friend whether her friends were studying at that particular faculty of university. She told me that I was right, and I asked her what she's studying. Chitchat about her courses, asked her name, cracked some jokes. Next move was to find something that was more emotional to her. She loves to travel. I found out why: when she was 18, she took her first world tour. I listened to her emotional experiences in other foreign cultures, added some of my experiences. After 10-15 min of talking, her fanboys tried to intervene. I let them, knowing she would say goodbye. I chatted with some other people, and after 2 hours she came back to me to say goodbye. I asked her number and she immediately gave it to me. I asked some quick questions regarding her background and we our ways seperated into the night.

I tried to call her 3 days later, but she didn't pick up the phone. Yesterday I sent her a message to have a drink. Fingers crossed. Possible excuse: she's a translator, they always go abroad during holidays to have field experiece. I hope that's the reason.

Dont call her again. No matter how much your cock begs you to. Dont give into the temptation of contacting her again. You've shown enough interest at this point...anymore and you'll become the 'needy guy' thats dying for a fuck. ---> we dont want that, surely? if she wants anything to do with you, she'll get back to you. Whether that be in 1 week or 1 month, patience is a virtue. If you never hear from her again, put on your pussy magnet cape and take to the skies...there are 3,291,805,000 women in the world...the oppurtunities are endless.

True. I just tried to contact her twice because she initiated kino. Her loss. First time my feeling is wrong. Not trying to restore my ego, but I think she chickened out.

Ok, I have another 11 phone numbers and one very funny encounter.

Going to give a short report on the funny one.

Bar: 6 tables, 6 big groups, 5 mixed, 1 girls only
I'm sitting with my wing. I noticed one girl in the girls only group. I'm sitting with my back to her. My wing tells me she's looking at me a few times. After a while, she's going outside, but not leaving. When she enter the room to go to her friends, I intercept

Me: You know, my wing has been wondering if it is appropriate to ask a girls phone number. Well, can I have yours?
She (stunned for 2 seconds): Well, you know I could be married
Me: Well, fate will decide about that. I just saw you passing by, and I just had that instinct it was right to ask your number.
She: laughs
Short intermezzo: asking about job, ... She asks my name ...
Me: Well, can I still have your phone number?
She: Well, let's fate decide if we see each other back
Me: Do you come here often, I like to take control of my fate
She: Every weekend.
Me: Ok, I'll see you around

She goes back to her friends

After an hour she passes by to go home.

Me: You are sure you're not married?
She: You really are very direct. We'll talk about that next time.

The bartender knows her. Yes, she's going to that place each weekend.

Great fun, great fun.

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