Hello guys,

First of all let me thanks all the writers and PUAs in this forum considering how much good information there is around here. After you know what this topic will be about from the obvious title let me wrap in a bit of information about myself and my experience. First of all I'm an attractive 19 years old looking guy (a bit objective statement but I have numerous opinions who defends it) but shy. Before I found out what PUA is about I never noticed where my mistakes were. After I found this treasure I came from having 2 hook-ups a year to around 4 dates a week. I became quite confident with myself and increased my social skills. Unfortunately never had a very serious girlfriend which I think is one of the reasons I never got laid - was close to it a lot of times actually though (i.e. cuddling, intimacy, foreplay). Well, so far so good.. making this progress sounds good. Well 8 months ago I left my country to study abroad and from 2 millions city now I live in 20,000 small town with nearly no social contacts. The foreign guy in the small town with not so many young people thats the story in brief. So this completely destroyed the progress I made so far. I know this contradicts the whole PUA idea and that a good PU artists can find girls everywhere despite the conditions but facts speak for itself in this case... less girls, no social activities, no clubs, etc. So I'm still virgin and still never been in serious relationship. Being a virgin and loosing all your social contacts is really not a good think that can happen to anyone's seductive skills. So now I'm really thinking of the dirty solution called "hooker". Maybe I can stabilize myself and feel a bit less sexually frustrated. I don't remember what was the name of this guy promoting the whole idea of getting laid as early as possible even with a girl that doesn't feel right but anyway you may recognize who I'm speaking about.

So, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated?

The way I see it, lots of social anxiety and fear of taking things to the next level with a woman is because of lack of experience. If you never escalated to sex even though you had the chance to, chances are it's because you were nervous about exploring the unexplored.

Buy yourself a hooker, get laid, see what a pussy looks like feels like, be able to not be labeled a virgin.. and I'm sure your confidence will rise.

And when you do have sex with a girl you're actually gaming you won't be completely lost.

That's my take on it, losing your virginity to a hooker isn't all bad, but it isn't the best way to do it, I would just pick up some drunk chick at a bar, save yourself the worry of STD's and some money.

19 isn't late, especially not to pick up the drunk chick powerpsi was talking about.

Do you really want to think of yourself all your life as a guy who had to pay to lose his virginity?

I'd rather remember an easy game all my life and fondly remember how far I've gone from there.

I agree with this one. Actually there were so many options and even nice girls that were almost literally telling me to fuck them but I didn't. It's a bit like the last scene from "Dumb and Dumber" with the bus full with nice chicks.
Agree on that one as well. I think it's a experience I should enjoy, one that I won. Especially with a nice girl that I like being with. The thing is time is passing by and I start to feel that this may continue and even sometimes I see myself after a couple of years in the similar situation being a virgin. It's a bit like dead end street, you don't know where to go. I would be more motivated and positive if there have been any success recently.

hey man,


If you've done gaming already (unless i misread) then just start out doing it around youre town. Start off making friends if its small and tightly nit. Make sure its just friendly, flirty friendships with women.

Find places to hang out and a few hobbies to take up that will get you meeting up with people.

Maybe see if you can get out to the city once a week to do some mass scale approaching to help with your technique.

Just remember once you get a girl (even the first) make sure you make it to a close. Doesn't matter if you open 100 women and don't close, if you can open 1 girl and close (have sex) her.

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Your story relates to mine. I lived in Brasil, always got KC on the weekends and NC...but no FC. I am 19, still a virgin and I was encouraged to move back to Florida where I reside in Orlando. This place is boring as hell......no women in this small area....shopping mall is a damn 30 minutes away by car(I don't have my permir yet...)

To top it all off, I had a goal this year that I would break the record of women I kissed....last year I kissed 13 girls in total(I suck....) this year....none. Fuck florida...fuck Orlando...this shit is shit. I wandered around, I went swimming, went to the gym and there are only old hags. My record is long dead.

Now, don't lose your virginity to a hooker bro. Work for it, seduce a girl you want and work out the skills. Lose your virginity to a woman who wants it, not one who wants the $$. I feel ya, but we all have to work for our conquests.

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Well same here, 2 hook-ups for the last 8 months it's pathetic. Anyway, I found out that there are some nice girls around the town. Saw 2 really nice girls today one one the way to the gym and the other inside. And when I tried to catch her for a chat she suddenly disappeared. Anyway, it's seems like I will have to train to speak with strangers and take phones on the street. It was so much easier when the girls were just popping out in your company and you can start the chat easy.

meh....god for you bro. I have yet to find a woman in these parts. The ones I see seldom go outside.

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Don't get laid just because you want to get laid. Sex is just something that comes in a total package. It's fun, it's intimate. But never see it as the ultimate goal ...