so i am about to give my GF freez out because lately she is acting totally rude and gets pissed off on everything (yea i know she is loosing interest in me)

but looks like she is also doing the same we are already not in contact for 2 days and i am almost sure she wont contact me first is there any other option how to punish her?and is i know her, her pride wont allow her to contact me first

BTW: we are together for 1 year and that no contact happened some times until i initiated contact but wtf we are in relationship and she is playing games on me?

what would you do guys?or how long would you wait and then do anything?

Have you talked to her about her behavior? Pose the question, see how she responds. "What's the problem, you act like you're PMSing 247." Try to get some insight before making a decision.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

ye i have talked with her about this even more times but i hear just craps like "i need space" "i am normal" or she puts the blame on me

Don't want to be the barer of bad news but I think she is going to break up with you. If I were you I think you should break up with her before she dumps you. This will give YOU all the power. If she dumps you first she will have all the power and you will be left chasing her and that never works.

This is just my opinion and I could be wrong. However, I recently got dumped by my gf of over 2 years and I wish I had dumped her first. I put up with a lot of shit I shouldn't have and it sucks. I think the only way to save the relationship is to open her eyes and show that you won't stand for the crap she's pulling.

i dont think if she dumps me first she has all the power and i am sure i wont chase her after she ends it and i am sure if i dump her she also wont chase me (already happened once)

if she dumps me and then see that i have a good life even without her then she will just see what she has lost by her own stupidity

Sounds like a break up is inevitable, man. You shouldn't have to play these games in a healthy relationship. I'd end it or freeze her the fuck out and do it properly.

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"I want to stand as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all the kinds of things you can't see from the center."

"I'm going to give you a definite... maybe."

i hear just craps like "i need space" "i am normal"

I would have ended it right then and there. I agree with Iceman...you need to end it first, on YOUR terms. Don't wait around hoping things will turn around, they won't.

Say that her attitude is for sh*t and she can have all the f*cking space she wants.

As far as who has the power, SHE does. She is giving you attitude and you are taking it...that makes you her little whipping boy. My apologies if this comment stings a little, I'm just calling it as I see it bro.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

so guys do you think that break up is the only thing i can do?

she doesnt have any brother or sister so is used to get whatever she wants but looks like i didnt act like she wanted me to so she is playing silly games
Once she argued with her father and it was same she was just waiting until he contacts her and when i asked her why doesnt she contact her faher first she answered me "they wanted me so they have to care for me" i bit sick isnt it?acting like she is the princess or middle of the space

Talk to her! Go listen you carry this shit on and I'm gone I'm fed up of your silly childish games It's about time you grow up if you don't want me fair enough but at least have the decency to tell me. Tell her in a calm none shouting tone and wait for a reply if you get another childish reply or she starts shouting just WALK away nothing else don't say anything just WALK away. She will then be on her own not getting what she wanted and realising how much of a childish bitch she is.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

you say she blames you but what does she say? you have some responsibility in this.

if you won't chase her and she won't chase you it sounds like you're both too emotionally immature to be in a relationship together.

you have much more power and self worth if you stand up for yourself. you can freeze her out or break up with her but i think here she needs to know that her behaviour is unacceptable. waiting for her to do it is quite weak.

sometimes a breakup can help a relationship. bonds are formed through good and bad mutual experiences.

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I'm a winner - I am going to win.

Agree 100% with the last post!

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

don't be pussy whipped!

WHIP! THAT! PUSS-SAY!

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

blames me that i did something wrong first and thats why she became angry but if she is out of arguments she just come up with something that i did 2 months ago or so

btw called her out today and spoke with her told her what i feel and that her behaviour is unacceptable she seemed normal and told me that she still wants to stay with me

but i just dont get it lol she gets angry on some stupid thing then she is retarded for 1 week (unable to talk with her like with an adult person) and when i freeze her out for 3 or more days and then call her out she is normal

You say that but you don't get it?

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When in Doubt, Freeze Her Out.

she wants to be dominated.

probably in and out of the bedroom.

do you have the cojones to deliver?

bet she likes to be spanked the hell out of too...

i've seen the type before.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!