Hey guys, first of all sorry about my english and I'm new to PUA.

I got a phone number from a HB on a dating site. She gave me IOI (said I'm attractive and she was the one who contact me first), but after I had her number we start texting for 2 days, she doesn't seems like she's interested for some reason, maybe I should call her instant of texting.

Okay, I decided to call her tonight, set up a date or something, but she was with her friends and we're only able to talk for a bit. Didn't have chance to ask her out. (her friends called her and have to go)

So here's my question, what should do now? I was thinking to call her tomorrow morning, continue on the conversation and ask her out for a drink.

Any suggestion guys? Thank you so much.

Unfortunatly at this point you have lost control of the conversation and have started to chase. I would take note of this for the next time. I know you don't want to be done with this one and youcan still give it a shot but be conscience of what you are doing so you can repeat things that worked and stop things that didn't work.

I'm not sure what your 2 days of texting conversations have been like but I'm assuming they did not capture, intrigue, or entice her in any way. They were boring and bland and didn't evoke any emotion. The key to ALL game is the ability to evoke emotion. The first encounters are crucial because if you don't evoke the emotion "interest" you may be stuck in muddy water and never be able to get out.

If you are in muddy water (we ALL have been) the worst thing you can do is go chasing. Whether you know it or not, you are chasing by texting her the next morning. I personally am not about waiting 2 days or any specific time frame but more about the element of surpise, spotenaity.

Loose the "nice guy" routine. This doesn't mean be a "jerk" but rather not to sensor what you conversations to something you think she wants to hear. It will only get you into the friend zone. This doesn't mean you should say everything on your mind, that could get creepy if the stuff on my mind is also on yours. There is a time and a place to share certain things. I guess you need to be a little more carismatic.

Back to your question. You can contact her but it can't have a beggin or needy tone. I would suggest more of a push-pull type of txt. Don't call. If you get on the phone you will have less control of what comes out of your mouth. If you text her it can be short, to the point, and researched.

Funny & sex provoking:
You:
I can't believe we haven't even had a drink after all the "text" we've had.


Putt in Check:
You:
You know what I like about you?
Her: What?
You: Nothin'

This will tell you were you really stand. If you are in real muddy water you won't get a responce at all because there is NO INTEREST based off whatever had previously happened.

If there is interest, you'll get a responce like "you dick". then you can reply "well maybe you can change my mind over a drink."

Then schedule it. or play back and forth.

Geeky (I really want you to think I'm needy)
"I never heard back from you, want to grab a drink sometime?"
(THis will not get you a date & if it does you are VERY lucky)


Research before you make contact. I have a 24 hr rule I try to follow. That means if you are thinking about doing something emotionally base give it time before you press the send button. after you have left it for a while and come back to it. you might think "thank god I didn't send that"

You might want to try posting hear too. Tell the PUA's your in muddy water and you were thinking about texting (whatever). they will give you feedback. It helps. After a while it will become more natural. You WILL go through a few until something sticks for you unless your one of the lucky ones.

Hope that helps.