Wednesday 13.4.2011 / Thursday 14.4.2011 / Friday 15.4.2011

Just a qucik view

I haven't slept since Tuesday, cause I had a midterm test on Wednesday, so I studied all night long from Tuesday to Wednesday and then we went out to celebrate a night from Wednesday to Thursday and yesterday I travelled 156 km (that's 96 miles) to Ljubljana to go to a B-day party of my friend Žiga, who is one of the best PUA's I have ever seen. He made an awsome party, hot girls, great people, an awsome party. But my game fucking sucked these 3 days.

Objectives:

Each night I had the same objective:

- Get a kiss close

Field:

Wednesday / Thursday

I went out with Primal and we hit the club called KMŠ it is kind of a unique club, there are only 3 of them in Slovnia and I was only in this one in Maribor. We hit the club at about 11PM and there was supposed to be a foregin students party, but nobody showed up, really there was like only 20 people at the club, so I didn't game (mostly due to a reason, that if the club isn't crowded I get this fear, that everybody will see my blowouts and then I'll ruin my chances for the rest of the night,. However the club started to fill till midnight and there were a few more people, so I've tried to dance with a few girls (I went in with my dancefloor gambit), but not a single one worked, they were all so uninterested, that my head exploded and I said Ah fuck that we went out and went to another club where I met my cousin from previous report (that's the one I've been unpurposely hitting on his girlfriend) and I went by and his GF pulled me in and said to him: ''See I've told you he dyed his hair.'' (I really did), we chatted for a bit and he didn't said anything directly to me, but he wasn't mad for me hitting on his GF, I guess he knows, I would never screw him up or his GF Anyway as just as I thought to go home (Primal went to sleep) I met one of my school mates, I'we known him for only like a month and he just went: ''Hey come on let's go to KMŠ, the place is crowded.'' What are you kidding me, I've just been there, there is nothing going on and before I know it, I was there, and don't ask me how or why, but at 2AM there was literaly no place to step at KMŠ, you couldn't walk from dancefloor to the bathroom, that's how full it was, we went to the bar to have a few drinks and then I talked to one of his female friends, from this International Student Comunity. I didn't talked for long, cause there was no iterest from her, so I just shut up and listened, what they were talking about.
It was like 5 AM so I went straight home into bed and woke up the next morning at 7 AM for class XD

Thursday / Friday

Žiga said, that he has a party at 10 PM, I was going on a train from my faculty with Logic and at my hometown, I dropped the bags and went straight forward to Ljubljana, janez came along at one station. When me and janez arrived at Ljubljana, we started to do warm up sets as soon as possible (to get into talkative mood), we started with simple asking for directions and then we pretended, like we're exchange students from Iceland and we spoke in English and funny thing is, girls love this shit back here, the only problem is that well you need to talk Slovenian back sonner or later and that ''lying'' kills all the attraction you gained, so I'm staying out of this, just for warm ups.
The funny thing is, when we talked english we went by a group and then we started talk back Slovenian and they said like, oh now you speak Slovenian already. Well what can we say, we're a quick learner.
Žiga had a good party lots of hot girls and I'm kind of a disapointed in myself, cause…
When we arrived, the guy took care of everything, he got the girls, he introduced us, he treated us like best friends, he said lots of good words for us and what do I do we do nothing, absolutly nothing, we were just sitting on a sofa by ourselves talking about gameplan and what stratagies we should do, but we didn't do nothing (I talked to his wingwomen, but that was just talk, I wouldn't ever steal his girl [and I'm not saying that I could, I don't even have the skills to do so ]) anyway me and janez decided to go to KMŠ in Ljubljana which is larger than the one in Maribor, so we took a ca band we went there.
The place was packed and I tried to game, I was in a very very good mood (not because of the B-day party, but because I visited second KMŠ in the country (for the first time) that's like dream come true. I was happy, I danced, I smiled, but everything I've tried with girls (grabbed her by the hand/pulled her in, jumpstyle dancefloor, …) nothing worked, they were just so fucking uninterested, fuck this happened to me the second night in a row. I tried all kinds of strategies, but it was like blank
We went to check out some other clubs, which were either emty, closed (it was 4 AM) or full of stoners, so we took an hour nap and then got on the train for back home. When I arrived I didn't know what was happening, I didn't know, if I was awake or asleep, I didn't slept for 2 days in a row now, so I went for a morning coffee to third and last KMŠ club in Celje.
Yeah altough I didn't know what was happening I acomplished a big task I got into all 3 of then in like 36 hours
Anyway I went to sleep and Saturday morning I had an international TKD competition suprisingly, altough, I was wired and tired at the same time, I finished third and those are one of the best moments in life, when you achieve something, that you thought you could never ever achieve before (I'm talking about the competition ).
So to conclude…

What did I do right:

- Visited all 3 KMŠ clubs and
- Had a good competition

What did I do wrong:

- I don't fucking know, I don't know, why any of that nightgame shit didn't wrok, but I still have to try it a few times and if it worked once before, I see no reason, why it wouldn't work now, right

What have I learned:

- Altough I had two shitty nights in a row as far as nightgame goes, I learned a lot about myself, what am I doing and most imporatantly, where are my sticking points, everything is good for something, this was for discovering my obstacles and to deal with them now

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How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD

What's up so...

I don't really have anything new to post, I just did some same shit as last week (that nightgame hand grab...) and it had like 1/20 hit ratio, so it's kinda wierd if I compare it with my first usage.
I think that for the first time in my nightgame, I have came across some sticking point, where I don't know, how to move on to the next phase in my game, I don't know ecsactly what is it or how to solve it, but I know it's there, so I need to recognize that and fix it, it just takes a little time

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Anyway I've been through a lot of things as far as game goes in the last few months, so I've decided to do a social experiment.

I'm going to trun off my game for 1 month. I won't be focused on my openings, I won't try to impress anybody, I won't go out to do game (I won't go out in that month anyway, cause I have like 5 midterms, so I'm really on short with my time), I won't gonna look if a girl likes me, I won't care if I insulted anybody (although I never do that at least try not to ), I'm not gonna watch, read or listen any material regarding PUA, I'm also logging off the forum for 1 month and most importantly I just won't give a shit about anything and everything considering game, pick-up, meeting girls...

It's just a little social experiment, since I've noticed that I'm probably getting a little addiction on this stuff not from the material (videos, books...) but from the field. I wanna see, how I'm gonna run without this stuff, since I've dedicated A LOT of my free time to this
After 1 month I'll see what the results'll be and whatever happens I'm still staying in the game, I'm just taking a little "pause" to sort out a few things about myself.
I'll see ya all in a month, stay cool

I'LL BE BACK

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I've noticed the best results when I'm not thinking about game for some reason... it's about finding that balance between reading material, spending time in-field and totally forgetting routines when interacting with people and being in the now.

This is gonna do you good I think. Let us know how it went and we'll see you next month.

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Guess what I'M BACK BITCHES

What's up everybody, so it has been 37 days from my last post on this forum, my experiment is done and I'm "getting" back into the game.
I can say one thing, this was one of the longest months in my life and I can say, that I missed game as hell. I setted myself a goal, that I won't game for 1 month. I'm not really expert in game, but I did it enough that it became a big part of my life and turning it off for a month really felt like turning a part of my life off. It's really difficult, even, when you try to avoid everything related to game, when you are deliberatly boring when talking to girls, boom your game comes on AUTOMATICLY. I noticed, that I have behavioral patterns that are subconscious and everytime I was talking to somebody they became active.
I can say, that I have solved a few answers about myself, but I have more questions, that I had before.

So if I break down my month here's how it went.

First 2 weeks were amazing, I felt somewhat free and just had good feelings, but after that my head started fucking with me, everytime I saw a hot girl, I wanted to approach, but the next moment I said to myself "No game for a month, remember!" and after a while, I realized, that this stuff isn't repeating in my head cause of 1 month pause, but cause now I have an excuse for not approaching and that's lame.
So it started to suck me in, everytime I went down the street, I was looking for girls everywhere and when I saw them 1000 thoughts crossed my mind in like split second everytime, so I was confused as hell. If we add on the top of that, that my midterms for this month chained me to be int the house, I went crazy almost suicidal, but I' would never do that, it just when your brains go insane and you have no control over yourself, it is fucked up.
So the last 3 weeks were hellish and something really strange was happening before my "pause", I met a girl working in candy shop, I number closed her, but I never called her, so after 3 week into my pause, I would have never thought, but she called me saying, "Hey K. when I'm going to see you again." And I was like WOW she acually rememberd me 3 weeks later after our 10 minute conversation at candy shop.
So we are meeting next Tuesday, we spoke on a phone a few times from then and here's the thing, the less I gave a fuck about gaming this girl, the more she was pulled into my world. WEIRD HA
Anyway I had second thoughts about my ex (yeah I know one-its happened to me) and the more that I was sucked into myself, the more I was thingking about her,
so I called her last wednesday after like a year and she was talking very very quiet and shy, I called her today again and guess what she pickup up the phone and immediately she was all feisty and said like: "You were ignoring me for a year, you hurt me, you think that I wait for your call everyday do you, well I don't I have my own life (Why would she said that, if she doesn't give a fuck hmmm), I think, we shouldn't have talk to each other." I told her that I'm sorry (I really hurt her, and that's not my head talking, I smashed her life pretty badly.), and I said to her "Look I haven't called you for a year yeah I know I'm jackass, but I had my own shit to handle, I can only say that I'm sorry and if you can't except that then I don't know what you can..." She replied: "Yeah you did fucked up, you know how I felt, I don't know what to do right now, but I need to think about this, call me in a month, I'll think about it and I'll see if you can really keep your promise. " Me: "OK I'll hear you in a month." [phone smashed].
I don't blame her for being mad at me, if someone did that to me I would fucking kicked his ass.
But check this out, she when I was dating her, she was always so shy and quiet and even now when I cought her by suprise she was the same quiet shy girl, but 3 days later, she is suddenly all pumped up angry, person that is about to explode, which means...
You guessed it she's faking it, I know her too well, so I know she's never like this, so her friends probably told her to say something like that to me to test me. It's logic, why would she be upset if she wouldn't give a fuck Yeah I know when someone is trying to fake it, that is one ability that I got with game.
Anyway I'm really gonna call her in a month and saw what's gonaa happen.

BTW 80 minutes after my call I figured out, that I'm still in the more than ever before game, you might think, that I got even more sucked in, but strangely
I felt really good after my call, cause in a single month I didn't do a single action, that I could said worth of mentioning and now, after 37 days of walking in the dark and after 80 minutes I figured out, that ther is abundance of women out there, no way "all in" on one girl. It's GAME ON

P.S.: I had a little spare time today and since I having physics midterm next week I calculated the ratio between my "pause" (37 days) and "waking up" after the call (80 minutes) (yeah I'm a geek and I like it), guess what the ratio is:

(37days*24hours*60miutes)/80minutes = 666 that's creepy.

For the conclusion, I'm IN again more deterimed than ever to sucseed in this, within the borders of my values (I'm not doing this and being a jackass at the same time), but I'm emproving to be a better person and to get myself under the control. If I achieved this more than one month without game (shutting down part of myself) and bringing it back, man right now I FELL LIKE I CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING I WANT

I'll see ya

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i'm going to tell you about some Mystery Method stuff. The reason that I am relates to you getting away from game for one month. The other reason is I still believe Mystery was the best instructor for Game before he made himself disappear lol.

Out of all the guys i've studied no one has invented as many theories or techniques in my opinion. I always thought if you want TO BE THE BEST, STUDY THE BEST WHO SPENT THEIR LIVES LEARNING IT. That way it only takes you a couple months.

Mystery once had a concept and it was that you're either on AFC island or PUA island. If you stay in the middle you drown. Or the current brings you back To AFC land. There's a lot of truth in this concept.

I also noticed that you read Game material. You will learn game 3x faster if you watch DVDs instead of reading. Fastest is In Field Training. Then Video, then audio, then books.

I can relate with your ex because I was in an LTR for a long time & when your in LTRs you start to lose your social circle and your game, especially if you stop going out.

i'm going to tell you about some Mystery Method stuff. The reason that I am relates to you getting away from game for one month. The other reason is I still believe Mystery was the best instructor for Game before he made himself disappear lol.

Out of all the guys i've studied no one has invented as many theories or techniques in my opinion. I always thought if you want TO BE THE BEST, STUDY THE BEST WHO SPENT THEIR LIVES LEARNING IT. That way it only takes you a couple months.

Mystery once had a concept and it was that you're either on AFC island or PUA island. If you stay in the middle you drown. Or the current brings you back To AFC land. There's a lot of truth in this concept.

I also noticed that you read Game material. You will learn game 3x faster if you watch DVDs instead of reading. Fastest is In Field Training. Then Video, then audio, then books.

I can relate with your ex because I was in an LTR for a long time & when your in LTRs you start to lose your social circle and your game, especially if you stop going out.

i'm going to tell you about some Mystery Method stuff. The reason that I am relates to you getting away from game for one month. The other reason is I still believe Mystery was the best instructor for Game before he made himself disappear lol.

Out of all the guys i've studied no one has invented as many theories or techniques in my opinion. I always thought if you want TO BE THE BEST, STUDY THE BEST WHO SPENT THEIR LIVES LEARNING IT. That way it only takes you a couple months.

Mystery once had a concept and it was that you're either on AFC island or PUA island. If you stay in the middle you drown. Or the current brings you back To AFC land. There's a lot of truth in this concept.

I also noticed that you read Game material. You will learn game 3x faster if you watch DVDs instead of reading. Fastest is In Field Training. Then Video, then audio, then books.

I can relate with your ex because I was in an LTR for a long time & when your in LTRs you start to lose your social circle and your game, especially if you stop going out.

You got that right man, pure truth. As far as Mystery goes, I like more to blend the methods together and use whatever is in the moment.

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OK I haven't been up here cause of ill-be-back-vt101947.html?highlight= but I said to myself that if something really worth posting happens I would post it.

Wednesday 23.11.2011 / Thursday 24.11.2011

Me and two of my friends went out to a student concert. I thought this is going to be another shitty night with a beer at the bar thing, but one of my friends was for immedieate action and that fucking brought my mood up to the max, knowing that I have someone with me that is for the game. The night started fucking awesome, the tickets for the concert were at 6 €, but we faked the stamps and got in there for free (eat that security suckers ). I won't lie to you there was a beer at the bar thing that also brpought my mood up, but there were at least hostesses involved, we just fucked around with them a little bit, since they were jumping around with Bavarias (type of beer) and Bavaria costumes. We got a little LED lights from them something like an award for… I don't know what, but it was cool, they even posted for my camera

After talking a bit we decided to go on a dancefloor since the group for the concert came, we tried to dance with a few girls in there, but everyone were like, no they came there to be looked at not because they want to party, but that didn't ruin any of the mood, we just went forward and eventually two girls were dancing with me (not at the same time ) we had a good time, but it was just dancing, I think I could do something more, since the first one and here is the funny part, when I came in for the dance, she didn't want to, but once I got her hand and showed her in first 5 seconds that I'm just for fun (with a smile on my face) and not for something (creepy ''Yeah baby'' shit), she was fully in enjoying, even when her friend was giving her a hard time she wouldn't let go and that's were I could have done more, but it was just dancing, I let go too early. But hey you know what shit happens.

No matter, after the concert was done we went at another club 'just to look at it'. When we came I looked at some girl and I thought that I've seen her before and I got this strange feeling that her name was…. We'll call it Laura (her real name is different) I was in such a dilema, cause I had a bit of AA, should I go up to her and ask her for her name, or should I pussy out… Oh FUCK IT let's go hardcore and that little choice of mine changed my night out completly by 180 degrees. I asked her: ''Your name is Laura, right?'' she replied: ''What, how did you knew that?'' I immediately rememberd everything about her, I had a flashback from 4 months ago. I was gaming this girl for like 3 or 4 hours with my wingman 4 months ago and we haven't seen since, we spoked on a phone maybe 5 times, here's the field report 4 months ago: an-empty-night-out-by-kupid-vt95689.html . Then something clicked, like I knew I was in. She didn't knew who I was at the first time, but she knew she knows me from somewhere, so I used that to make fast kino escelation, grabbed her by the hips pulled her in, carresed her back, while she was guessing who I was and I was C/F back. After like 3 minute she did manage to remember me (I challenged her big time) and she just threw herself in my arms, she was shocked to see me, cause here's the thing.
Let's say it like that, I live in a city #1, she lives in a city #2, I study in a city #3, she studies in a city #4, chance of meeting her at some random club in a city #3 at 3am in the morning and remembering her face after 5 months of not seeing her 1:45345325345

Anyway, we danced a little and I escelated kino to the max. I pulled her even closer, hugged her more, brushed her hair off her face. Pulled may face in and out and in and out… And then after our foreheads were touching she knew what is going to happen, bam k-close. We weren't talking just hugging and kissing BIG time for about half an hour, she was there with her friend and her friend's boyfriend, so we were partying together. I was getting her pretty horny , so I thought to myself I could make SNL, but I didn't knew how to pull her home, I freaked out inside, so managed to slip outside 'to say hello to one of my friends'. And I called my wingman at fucking 4 am in the morning for advice. I know he said something, but at the end I sadi to myself: ''Oh fuck it, I'm gonna pull out something myself.'' So I went back, more dancing and kissing and I said to her: ''Hey you haven't been at my place, come check it out.'' Of course she knew why I was asking her, why else would I invite her to my room at 4:30 in the morning to see my orange wall and my red chair, of course not. She was in for the thing, she only said: ''I gotta ask my friend first.'' But her freind cockblocked me, she said to me: ''Forget it, Laura is staying at my place tonight.'' I tried some C/F back, but it didn't work, I looked at Laura and her face was screaming out: 'If there wasn't my friend I would bang you right now.' You could see her in her body language. So I knew shit I'm stucked, but I played cool, I said to her: ''It's cool, you can come to my place another time, no worries, let's enjoy the night.'' She had that 'Your so sweet' look at her face, since I didn't run after I didn't manage to fuck her, that she threw herself in my arms and we kissed and hugged afterwards.
She went to the bathroom a few times and she wasn't back for a long time, I guess she didn't even believed that this is happening to her
Anyway at about 5 am I decided to leave, cause the logistics were getting fucked up and i didn't want to fuck anything up, we agrred to see each other the next day.

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If you're reading this FR, also read the previous one (Wednesday 23.11.2011 / Thursday 24.11.2011), since they are related

Thursday 24.11.2011

I woke up and called Laura at 11 am, sure enough she was sleeping, so took a brake, did some school stuff and then texted her at 1 pm, to see if she is awake: ''Good morning or is is good day… wtf Are you even up jet '' She replied and I called her. Did some C/F over the phone and then asked her to go for a drink, but she sounded so uninterested over the phone: ''Oh no I can't I'm still in my pajama, maybe afterwards.'' But I couldn't do afterwards, since I had college, so I sadi to her, OK I'll call you, I also invited her with me and my firends to Belgrade, since we're going and we still need 3 more people so that we get a discount, but she said she already has plans, no worries, I didn't freaked out, just chilled and hung up.

Now you would think that is the end of the story, hell no.
Before my college started me and my friend grabbed something to eat at the resturant called Picasso, we sit there and I see 2 girls behind the salad bar, but there was a blur galss between, I couldn't see the faces, soI talk to my friend more. The all of sudden out of the blue he sais: ''Dude isn't that your girl from last night over there.'' Sure enough I turn around and guess who I saw… Laura and her 'cockblock' friend.
WTF man, she was sleeping over at her cockblock friend like 8 blocks from Picasso, there are at least 20 resturants in between and she is eating at exactly the same that I do at the same fucking time (chances 1:1000 maybe ), I was like WTF is going on.
I got up and went straight to her, hugged her, kissed her and she was…. Awwww…..ammmm…hehe…. what are you doing here. I didn't knew what to say so I just said something and some C/F stuff, it didn't work, she was also uninterested, maybe again cause her friend was there, I don't know, but I left her to get used to it, so I went bakc to finish my meal and after we left, I went to say goodbye to her and that I'll call her, that was so fucking chode, I can't believe I accually did that.

So I don't know you guys, did I fucked up completly, cause I still have a feeling that I can do something with this, I mean don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm in loved with her, she's NOT the only girl that has pussy under the sun, but I don't want waste my work at the club last night out the window.
If you guys have any suggestions on further communication, I would be happy to hear it.

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Type out what you mean when you say: "I said some C/F stuff".

Most of the time it's just better to be real, instead of C/F.

Also framing her as being an "independent", before asking her to come home with you would've helped a little. If she really likes you, and was really horny, and you framed her as being independent, then she might have come home with you despite her friends.

But yeah, girls usually choose the opinion of their friends over some random dude in the bar's opinion. Always befriend the friends.

You could have also invited the friends to come along to your house, usually girls are savvy enough to know whatssup and decline the offer. But that's only after you befriended them. In which case they'll think it's okay for their friend to go home with you and will allow it.


p.s. I wouldn't say: "Hey you haven't been at my place, come check it out.'', to get a girl to come over. I would always justify it with something else, like: "Come check out my guitar/Nintendo Wii/Fishtank/etc".
But it worked out well for you this time, cause she was down. So, just a heads up for next time.

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I haven't posted in here for a while, but I gotta keep count somewhere.

Today me and my wing janez went to shoping mall to do some approaches, now we had a challenge previous week, every other day we had to do one approach or the looser, loses 5€ and must make 10 pushups in public. This was a huge deal for me, cause I haven't approached in like a few months, but I did it DIRECT and it was good, but today, it was the best we started doing some bullshit approaches and then he said that it's not about the game anymore, it's about getting balls, once you have that, you don't need game anymore, balls and confidence, you get your numbers up and it's golden so if we start doing that eventually we'll get to the results, so we did it for ourselves, not for the gilrs, that's why we started doing approaches that we knew they'll gonna be instant rejection, the point was like, if you feel bad on approach you're doing something outside of your comfort zone and you grow balls, after like few approaches you don't feel AA anymore and you're good to go, I'm having a mission right now to do x amount of direct approaches, so mostly I did all direct today, I think like 6 approaches, I know it's not a lot, but it certainly is better than 0 Anyway, it was a good day and I'm ready for next week full of chalanges

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