This girl I work with was ringing me for 2 months and only seen me like once. I could see she was holding back but we got on so well. Laugh and joke always have fun. Early on she told me I'm kind and make her happy.

She told me last week she wanted to be friends and nothing more, then phoned me days after sounding interested. Monday she was ok again, ringing me 5 x one the day, gave me a lift home and was flirting but wouldn't kiss me, and started saying I was rushing things in a joking way. Next day she called me alot too, we went to work(she doesn't want people to know about us) and she started flirting with a guy in front of me and IGNORING me at the same time.

Stood next the guy and made him think he had a chance over me. She got on the bus and sat away from me and asked him to sit next to her. I felt so much anger and pain because I tried to counter this behavior(her making me look stupid) and the guy noticed. She was acting like she liked this guy, talking to him and being distant to me around him, the guy was really girly though.

Later she told me she started talking to her ex boyfriend, she wanted to see him and he came around her house. She said that she is still single and doesn't want a relationship. She said he has her new number now. She gets jealous when I talk about other girls and acts like we are together.

STILL WORTH IT OR FORGET? she seemed really nice. I guess I was a 2 month rebound.

Early on she told me I'm kind and make her happy

That's what we call the 'friend zone' my friend. There is very little you can do once a woman places you in this category. My suggestion, buy some PUA material if you haven't already and learn now to build attraction. Being 'kind' will lead you to frustration every time.

She gets jealous when I talk about other girls and acts like we are together.

Typical, women hate competition. If you want to toy with her, continue to talk about girls, especially girls you are interested in...this will drive her nuts. And if at all possible, let her 'see' you flirting and having a good time.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

On the phone I am a bit too nice but in person I don't let her think she can tell me what to do or whatever. Like at work she was trying hard to make me jealous and I kept huge distance between me and her and then she didn't know what to do next. I only mentioned to her about the guy later because of the way she just was trying so hard to get me jealous.

I'm the kind of person who doesn't get jealous but if I know someone is trying hard to annoy me or get me jealous I will tell them about it. What do you lot think I should do now, in regards to this ex boyfriend coming back on the scene and being able to see her and ring her? apart of me knows the answer and I will likely freeze her out starting next week but I don't want to give up so easily.

We really have similar personalitys and just gel well it would be a huge letdown for us to just end up as friends but at the same time I wouldn't want to be with someone who isn't giving me the same I am giving them.