hey, so here's the problem, i met this girl who is really nice and i think she asked me out to have a drink with her and her mates, but here's the problems:
- shes 14 and im almost 17, i dont think she is a v but i am, and i dont care. why im scared of is the age difference... is it too big?
- she asked my out for a drink with her gfs... ive never been drinking with pep i dont really know and espesily only girls. could anything go wrong? how should i behave?

please help, thanks

Realistically you shouldn't really get involved mate...

1) it's against the law!
2) if she's not a virgin at 14 i'd be a little bit worried.. personally anyway.

But yeah, truthfully it probably wouldn't stop me. But I can't see much to gain out of this.

Thank you
i really wanna go though and maybe just flirt

what about the girls at the drinking party?

I wouldn't fancy babysitting a bunch of drunk little girls.

But it depends what you want. I think she will have sex with you based solely on your age.

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I mean, girls do mature faster than guys, and some 14 year old's are completely different to other 14 year olds.

I remember last summer I was on holiday and there was this absolutely gorgeous girl who kept exchanging glances with me by the poolside. I approached her and got chatting and discovered it was her birthday.. I then asked her how old she was today...... she declared '14!' I replied '.....oh, nice.'

My point being I'd of thought she was about 19-20, so it depends on the girl.

If you feel like you should go for drinks with them, then do it. It's an experience and at the end of the day it's all about experiencing new and different things. Just be careful mate.

I met my first girlfriend when I was 18 and she was 15. We were quite happy and really enjoyed each other's company. So I'd say it's alright - but only if you intend for a serious relationship. If you do go ahead with it then make sure you take care of her and make her feel secure with you. First relationships are memorable.

Thanks very much guys!
this has really helped

So I'm the only one that, if I went, would be flirting with all of them?

More for me.

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dude I can totally relate. I'm 20 and have had a few close shaves (I never had any physical contact) with underage girls I gamed in parks etc. Some really are fully developed at that age.

My advice to you would be to go along and not to care about the outcome with those chicks, you gotta think of the long term.

Practice on that group how to be cocky and funny and entertaining and work on your inner game, get your confidence with girls up. In the long run its gonna get you laid a lot more building your skills up that way.