So last week I a managed to pull this beautiful girl at a bar. I new her previously and her reaction was this as always. SWEETHEART! xD

Unfortunately I did not know she was as drunk as I was and after making out with me, she threw up and blacked out. Trust me, she seemed pretty coherent. She remembered none of the night...

Well, invited her out for drinks at the local watering hole last night. My friend pulled my hat off and tried to play keep away like a drunken fool. I was silenced. I couldn't maintain any semblance of confidence. I talked about the dumbest shit that only nerds would know about. Took her to a diner, did the same thing there. I felt so fucking awkward. Dropped her off and got a hug.

I'm pumped that I was able to get this far with a girl of her calibur. But I can't help but feel this crushing feeling on my chest. My confidence is in the shitter right. Not that I have ever been that confident. I just don't know what to do anymore. It's affecting me at work with everyone. What can I do about these anxieties.

Dude just concentrate on the positives

a) You pulled a stunner on a night out

b) after she had been sick etc. it would have been easy for her to be so embarrased in herself to see you again, HOWEVER, you obviously made her feel comfortable enough for her to want to see you again.

We all fail at having the perfect dates at times, trick is to just learn from it and move on.

She will either be the one that got away or later on when you have greater inner confidence and game she will be interested again.

Just get back on the saddle and get back out there and meet other girls, youl be fine.

CG

Always learn from your experiences. In the beginning you will feel like you screwed this one up, but remember this one was never really important. You are capable of getting a hot girl to go out with you, so you have some semblance of game.

Learn from your mistakes, feeling awkward and uncomfortable is a good thing, you're pushing your comfort zone just that much farther.

Don't fret about this mess up, the real point is that you'll get more opportunities, and if you really sit down and think about where you screwed up, the next time will be better.

It's gradual success that will make you a PUA. Eventually you'll be so good at it that you won't even remember this one fuck up.

Thanks guys. It's going to be a pretty big struggle for me to find that inner game but I'm willing to keep it up. I just get so wound up about these things.

There's thousands of women out there within your ability to meet in reality so dont worry about one bad experience. learn from it and meet other women with this under your belt!