I tried to search the forums but didn't get any results past page 1. What are some examples of kino and how do you escalate them from the beginning to the end? I don't enjoy touching people (guys or girls) but am trying to change this. Thanks.

You can always start by touching her arm when you or she makes a joke. Personally I tried this and it worked : If she's playing with her phone (make sure you have at least established comfort between her and you) take it or make her put it away! It'll allow you to get initial physical contact and bring the attention to you. It'll also show that you are dominant in the relation and that's a start. Then there's the usual leg touching which I find is pretty lame but it's a start.
Begin from the top of her body and move onto the lower parts .
I was able to get her touching my crotch in 30 minutes and it felt good !

Hope this'll help.

How do you mean by touching her arm? Like lightly grazing it, or grabbing it? I don't do the whole kino thing so I'm trying to make sure I fully understand what you're talking about.

The thing with keno i have notice is that it doesn't even have to be intentional, or it can appear to be an accident for it to work. It sends a small single that like 'i like being close to you'

the more direct it is the larger the signal. you can feel out how comfy she is with you by accidentally bumping or touching her in any way, if she jumps back fast, its a bad sign. But if she doesn't even move, its like she knew she was really close to you and was cool with it.

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You know when someone puts their hand on someone's shoulder for bad news... or in a serious pep talk. That's what we're talking about.

If she does something silly, place your right hand on her left shoulder, look her in the eye and say, condescendingly, "wow. you really are special" Then let go and laugh. "Now you can get me a drink to apologise"....

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