Well, I met this HB10. Went out a few times shes new to town and doesn't know anyone. Havent been able to escalate attraction. This is headed to LJBF.

My question is how to handle the current situation. We have plans to grab a drink tomorrow with some people and we had tentative plans to do a baseball game this weekend. I will say I'm a bit frustrated imediatly. I received a text today.

HB10:
Just bought a flight home for easter so I won't be able to make it to the game but I'm definatly in for tomorrow night. Flights went down to $200.

Because I bought tickets to the game and took off work for a part time job this has me immediatly frustrated and I have no idea how to reply seeing see want to still do something tomorrow.

ADVICE PLEASE!!!

Why do you think the escalation isn't there? Are you being timid about moving it to the next level? Are you being challenging, cocky, funny, etc. with her, or are you making the interactions predictable and boring?

The excuse to fly home can be a legitimate reason. I know someone who wanted to fly into town this week but she canceled because it would have cost her $600. You can't blame the girl for taking advantage of a good deal.

If she still wants to hang out tomorrow then there is some interest, on some level. What you have to do is take advantage of it. If drinks are involved, it will make things a little easier for you. Drinks bring down inhibitions.

Don't get upset about the tickets. Take a friend along or some other girl to keep you company and have a good time.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

I agree. I have been a bit cocky and funny. The few times we have hung out it has been fun but it hasn't moved into the seduction level as fast as previous. I'm alright with that but I'm looking for a little advice on how to reply to this message.

I was thinking something like:

Well llooks like we'll have to pack all our fun into Thursday. Truthfully after last weekend I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to do two in a row anyway. There is only so much Jessica a guy can handle.

or something like that. advice?

I would go with this...

"Well llooks like we'll have to pack all our fun into Thursday. By the way, you owe me $$$ (half the cost of the ticket) for your ticket. And I only take cash"

It's meant to be a playful, cocky comment of course.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Tried it. This is the reply: (Which is true) They were tetative plans.

HB10:
I never told you to buy me a ticket! But Ill pay u for the whole thing ass!


Open to suggestions. Haven't given this one my best game so I need to do some learnin'

Don't make excuses for her bro. F*ck that!
Rule #1, don't ever let any girl disrespect you like that (calling you an ass). If she bites, you bite back, period. Don't let her bitchy, shitty response phase you. A decent girl would have thanked you for buying the ticket and felt guilty about it. This crappy response is just a preview into her real f*cked up attitude.

Response: Excuse me, who are you calling an ass, is that how you talk to people? I know your mother taught you better manners than that.

Keep in mind, this type of response only carries weight if you have established yourself as a confident, high status male. Girls typically back off when alphas show their teeth if they get out of line. If you came across as a weak beta-male (in her eyes), she will continue with her crappy responses.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene