Hey guys,

basically a very good looking girl started working in my team a few months ago. I was seeing a couple girls at the time so wasn't massively interested. After a while I had seen her out a couple times and knew she liked me so I asked her out and we had a textbook date with a kiss at the end.
But after that she has been hesitant to go out with me again even though she told workmates she really liked me. i did play it really flippantly with her at first but she's said that's the problem and that I love myself. She is also being really defensive and almost trying to attack me sometimes. When I first met her I thought she was a bit of a bimbo who would fall for shallow game but it turns out she is a really nice girl.
So are these indicators that she still likes me and hasn't been put off by my bravado? And how can I combat this?

Cheers

Update- Turns out she must have been testing me as I've found out she wouldn't see me again because she is afraid I just wanted a fling. She even expressed her concerns about dating me incase I turn out to not be 'the one', which is crazy imo.

Going out with her again to talk things through, don't really know how to handle a super defensive sensitive girl..

Having the same exact problem

My solution was to move on, but she still shoots me a text once in a while.
Go figure.

Al

This is the power of ignoring her and moving on, i would assume. I suspect that super defensive girls sometimes regret being so defensive @ night when they are home alone with no man. But when its crunch time, they will put up the walls.

Yeah definately this one hasn't been laid in a year and it's no wonder because she is ridiculously defensive,think it is due to some past issues mainly.

Anyway I'm just gona freeze her out now as it's my best option but suits me as I can't be bothered with her weirdness anymore.

Oh well onto the next one..