im wanting to know routines people use for there text game. i know its getting more and more common these days to tune girls using text messages.
cheers

google: the ultimate guide to text and phone game.


This is the structure of good text messaging:

1. Re-initiate mutual contact
2. Maintain or build attraction
3. Maintain or build comfort
4. Increase the frequency and intensity of mutual communication
5. Go for the meet up

honestly

texting before you got a girl interested in you is really for pussies

go for the calls if she's not interested, be interesting, get her textin to meet you up, have some babbies, voila.

How would u get a girls number, if u cant get her interested in u in the first place .


Text game is really helpful to build attraction and comfort. For example, i met this girl last Friday on a party (talked to her 5 minutes tops, but did get a k-close), and she is leaving for 2 weeks to the USA tomorrow.

So there is only 1 way, unless she turns out to be a slut or I would just be lucky (and I don't wait for luck to be on my side), to get her to meet me up after 2.5 weeks (she doesn't know anything about me): solid text game.

you got k-close tho, that alone makes it all diff

Does it tho? Without solid text/phone game, the attraction she felt that night could have been gone the next day..

you're totally right, but, that k-close established a diff connection between both of you, it's like what you gotta do is continue it, don't have to build it from zero

well, most girls when they give out they're number it's because they're atracted right, even if only just a little bit, BUT, calls can be way more effective, could depend on the girl tho


i guess what i meant is go for the call instead of text, specially when it's a special girl

Thats the difference between guys and girls. We can jst pickup from where we left off. But girls dont function that way. U always need to get her back in te right emotional state, before u wanna kiss her again.

Anyway, a call is more like an all-in move. Either she picks up or she doenst. U also ask for a bigger compliance. With the right text msg, she can answer with a low investment text back, and u can build from there. When the connection is re-established, then call her up. Also with texting, u dont have to worry about her emotinal state. If she's angry, tired, or just busy, she can text u back later when she is relaxed and has time.

aye, that's why it depends.

honestly, i'm all for an aggressive attitude, it's a kind of deal or no deal attitude since my main goal is to be with the girl in case (number->call->date), cause for me, that's the only thing that gives me results, txt msgs take way longer and can be tricky

oh well, diff approaches for diff cases right, good thing we're discussing this tho, the topic maker will be happy

Haha true that.

My main strategy is this:

1. I text her being right in front of her, like 'this girl from X won't stop flirting with me, what should i do?', or 'you look real sexy in that black skirt'.
2. I text her the same night, like 'it was nice meeting you X, have a good night - Jabba'. I always insert some funny callback humor here.
3. I text her the next day, and keep a text conversation going until the evening.
4. I call her in the evening.


This way, you keep flakes to an absolute minimum.

that looks like a pretty good strategy!

my way to get numbers revolves around seeing each other another time you see, so all there is to it is getting her number, calling to set up a date or w.e u wanna call it, then escalate from there

anyways, on topic,

send her a randomn message, turn around every question she makes to show her your interesting way of thinking, make her qualify herself

imagine you're pro at whatever, pro at buying stylish clothes for example, ask her a question to help ya choose over something then start showing her how you really know your shit, make some fun of her, continue to where you want to lead it

send her a code message like
odiwfyaaywemsf12s
then say "find out what it means!", girls love shit like this it's amazing


these are some ways to make txt messages interesting, some ways that have worked pretty nicely for me, cheers

I'm with jabba when it comes to text game

If I'm in the cinema , I wont answer my phone even if it was the girl of my dreams

At least a few texts , get a bit of momentum , then you can sense that she is enjoying the texting thus will be more compliant to take the call

I don't even call tbh , girls where I'm from prefer texting

Here is my fav line

Her-bla la la

Me-that's my 2nd fav thing about you..

Her-what's the 1st!

Me-will tell ya in person , can you cook?

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Hehe nice one, i will remember that one.

I dont always call either. Tonight im acutally going on a date which i set up yesterday with texting:

Me: and i thought u were sweet

Hb: haha dont worry! Actually im a sweet girl!

Me: hmm....im not convinced yet;). U can proof it to me in person though tomorrow

Hb: tomorrow? What did you have in mind?


And i found out girls dont usually get to text with guys wihtout the guy asking them out. The girl, who said it today, said it made her more interested (which is only logical because over text u can build attraction and comfort before asking them out)

Oh and the girl i posted about earlier who went to the states for 2 weeks, im meeting her this thursday..damn i love texting

Ha Good stuff

You can also spice it up by adding vague questions..(credit to vin an Julian no flakes)

Me-Do you have a digi camera?

Her-yes why

Me-you shall see..

Text game-it took me 2 Years to get good at text game, an I can usually identify within a few text if I will sleep with her or not, if I knew what I know now on texting back in the day , I'd double my lay count I reckon

Jabba , I made a thread on killer one liners, would be great to hear more of your ideas

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