Hey fellow PUA

Over the last few years I have stepped my game up quite a bit with some of your help. I've landed a few HB10 a bunch of HB7,8, & 9's. Truthfully I'm not going to lie but I like the game. At the same time I am interested in actually getting in a relationship but I'm not sure I will be able to. I seem to get bored, self conscience, or something happens that after a few dates I end up pushing these girls away. Maybe it's because I know I can get another. Who knows. I'm not looking for a psychological breakdown but rather some insight to my current situation.

I met this HB10 at a trendy bar/restaurant I work at on the weekends. She came in by herself and eventually we got to talking. I was able to get her digits but it wasn't too difficult because she's new to the city and has NO social life. Well the next day I sent her a txt and we met up for some coffee, a nice walk, and then proceeded to get a bite at a nice wine bar. I don’t do any kino because she had recently broke up with a guy and is just looking for some companionship.

Over the next few days we trade C/F texts back and forth. She had said at some point she looking forward to just being single and was craving some female friends. There also was a txt, after a neg, that was C/F saying this is going to be a rough friendship. Eventually we went out for sushi and I did do a little kino. Things were good but I didn't pic-up any IOI's. There were a lot of laughs and smiles.

The texting continued for the next day or two. Then Yesterday I met up with her before I had to tend bar for lunch. The conversation wasn't as comforting. (I'm not sure if her extreme beauty had me intimidated). It wasn't bad but it wasn't my best.

Later that evening she had come into my work before close. I was able to leave and we were going to go out. I realized there were 3 females I knew still at the bar I worked at and I started saying goodbye to them. The HB10 was sitting in a different spot, so after a couple of minutes I invited her over.

The five of us had decide to all grab a drink. It was nice and social. HB10 and I had moment to really build comfort and I think we did. The 3 other girls eventually took off and we headed to a bit hipper part of town. Had some drinks, socialized with ransoms and acquaintances I ran into. Finally at the last spot and after a few too many drinks we were on a couch at one of the bars having good convo. She had somehow brought up being wanting to enjoy being single or some shit test. I had replied with something like. "You know I'm obviously somewhat attracted to you, right? I'm sure I wouldn't be the first person to tell you your gorgeous, but to me there's more than beauty" If I remember correctly I don't think I got any real response or I cut her off the hook because I knew I had probably had too much to drink. We shared cab ride home but both went to our homes.

The next morning I had text her "Skydiving" for some reason. (I had previously been an avid jumper so it popped into my head for some reason). She had no interest for whatever reason. I had said "grabbing a cup of coffee. Brunch later? Ya/Na or should I grab a bite here" She excepted. Went to brunch and then drove the scenic route to go do some shopping for a while.

I'm really confused on this one because I have not received any real IOI's and a few shit test. We have plans to do a happy hour this week were I'm introducing her to same girls she might be able to be friends with. Then a baseball game and tailgate with friends this next Saturday and another Monday.

I'm not sure How I committed to all these when I don't even know where I stand. I have text her since after shopping because regardless of how much I or we may have enjoyed each other’s company. 3 meals in a 24 hr period together can be a lot. I don’t want to be told LJBF I want to build attraction and escalation but I find myself intimidated by this one.

Any feedback would be appreciated.

Sounds like u are already in the friend zone. If u aren't, then escalate asap.

Either take a risk at loosing her, or accept her as a friend, and use her to get other HB10's