Hey there to all the fellow posters on here. Not exactly sure what category this fits into, so thought I'd throw it into Natural Game.

So back in December I was at a small college party. I hooked up (got a bj) with a girl from class. She's not too attractive, probably a HB6. We never hooked up again, and still talked at school. She also told me that things don't have to be awkward between us, so that was cool because she's super nice and knows a lot of people.

Here's where the confusing part comes in...

About 6 weeks ago, her and her friends (HB8.5 and 2 HB7) all happened to be at the same party as I was. I made a couple jokes with the HB8.5 who I had met once before, and have always wanted to wheel. I continued talking to her at the bar later, making her laugh, but not focusing all of my attention on her. She wasn't drinking, and left early. When I teased her for leaving early, she told me I should come to a party that she was going to in a couple weeks. I told her I'd maybe see her there.

I didn't go to the party because I had an exam the next day, so I was pretty pissed off. Since then we've talked a few times at school, and I've caught her looking at me and smiling as she talks to her friends. I smiled back, but it was just before class started so I didn't approach. Whenever I do talk to her I make her laugh which is an obvious positive. However, she never approaches me at school, I'm always the one to start talking to her which is fine because I can tell she's kind of shy.

So I want to ask her out on a date the next time I see her. Problem is, school is almost over so as of now my best chance of seeing her is at a year end party in a couple weeks. Obviously I've made a really good first impression since she laughs at my jokes and I've caught her looking at me smiling before.

It's bugging me though, do you guys think that since her friend and I hooked up a few months ago, she'll be hesitant to say yes when I ask her out??

There are WAY too many unknowns for me to answer that question. That's cool, though, because whether or not you think she'll be hesitant to say, "yes" shouldn't be a deciding factor.

If she says, "yes," then great. If she says, "no," then life goes on. There are other fish in the sea. If she doesn't say anything at all, due to the fact that you don't ask her, then you'll spend the rest of your life wondering and regretting. That's a whole lot worse than fear of rejection, and even rejection itself.

Ya, actually I'm not really worried about rejection itself, but just wanted to be prepared in case the situation was to come up when I ask her out.

You did make a good point though, and I'll keep that in mind to give me the extra motivation. Thanks[/quote]