[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LW5ftkoWIgQ[/youtube]

I know Jav posted this before, but felt the need to post it again.

So wtf... should I just be myself and enjoy myself, with women? That'll be a huge boost in my confidence cuz I'm not following any routines... But damn! All this shit that I read on... I can just be myself instead???

genius

I think that was right on the money actually.

You mad bro? And I know Paris Hilton.



As far the video goes the guy is right, totally right.

When I tell chodes "Instead of asking us for advice, go out and do something.. Learn from your mistakes and try something new again" they look me with a puzzled face and their like "Wtf?? That ain't advice" while its actually the best advice you can get.

Sounds like the core of natural pickup.....inner game!

I've done this inner game stuff the last few months. Haven't F-Closed anybody, but I have gotten a few more friends than I started out with, and I always have the option to go out and do STUFF...with fun people.

With this being said, I still have a long way to go, but inner game is what I seek. I know that if I create my inner game (note, not FIND it, but CREATE it), everything else will fall into place. It's all about being the person you imagine yourself being. Wish you could go up and talk to those hot chicks? Go do it! I've been rejected PLENTY in the last couple of months, but I still have trouble walking up to some chicks. It's the inner game that has to be built!

Great post, everyone should see this. Not to knock pickup lines and creative ideas, they definitely help when you reach a quiet spot. But confidence is what it's all about.

When I realized how much I hated myself, that's when the games began! That's when I grabbed the bull by the balls and made it my crusade to enjoy give myself some serious inner game.

As a side note, my social awkwardness stemmed from a lack of understanding of people and their body language. It makes it much easier to approach a girl (or some guy that looks cool & you'd like to befriend) if you know that they want to meet you. Poeticlyskuac has some seriously excellent advice on this forum. Read through his stuff on "alpha" and "body language," and it eventually will coincide with this video:

You can pickup girls and make a shit ton of friends by being yourself-----you just have to make yourself cool first! Or at least believe that you're cool.

awesome! it is possible to combine your PERSONALITY and ROUTINES. However don't do that till your inner game is sorted

Yeah I always loved OG Furious's advices, his youtube channel is what I describe educational funny

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Of course! That's what everybody on here should be aiming for, improving yourself and then attracting women just by being yourself. It's all about your beliefs and confidence. Lines and routines just give you something to start the interactions off with (which is what most guys struggle with).

somebody smart said - you is a very fishy word. You can be the person who u want to be. If your personality sucks, you're an a*hole, it doesn't mean that that's who u should continue be.

Life=improvement.

I really agree with what he says (I read somewhere he's Belgian, can someone confirm this?). I never really used canned material, just the 5 lies game and that joke "You know that 95% of females masturbate in the shower". Well, I tell jokes all the time so that is canned material I guess, but you know what I mean.
I didn't want to become a social robot like Style described it, so I just used elements of the game to improve my own, and it's working better and better!

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I heard it directly that he was belgian, the accent

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Yeah he has a funny accent, but at first I thought he was Scandinavian. Does anyone on the forum knows him (I guess he's Flemish)?

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I completely agree. Blindly follow certain routines are a waste of time, applying them means just having fun while playing the game. And you still have to develop content to your approach, which is equally important.