Its hard to admit this but when it comes to sex, i'm pretty desperate.

Every time i meet a fairly attractive girl, in the back of my mind i'm thinking: 'I need to get this girls number, go out for drinks and bring her back to my place.' And it shows too, i know it does. Girls can tell what my intentions are and its really hindering my results.

Does anyone else have this problem? What do you guys suggest I should do to stop thinking this way?

Nothing's wrong with the intention;but I guess your prob' is that it shows.

I guess you need to read some inner game stuff to try get this in checc.

Another thing is to just be social without any intentions.

Approach without intentions but to be soial and bounce.

That would train yourself to not be desperate.

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I kinda had that problem at one stage as well. Then I spent 3 months in Malaysia and Singapore and ended up talking to alot of prostitutes at the clubs. Being the cheap cunt I am and cautious of diseases my goal was actually not to have sex with any of them (despite most of them being hot), instead just talk to them (nothing dirty, just casual talk) and drink with them. In the end I came to treating them like any other girl and found they are much friendlier than non working girls. Now its much easier for me to talk to hot girls as I treat it much the same as when i was talking to prostitutes although now I have the choice to escalate.

Treat sex like "its going to happen because i make it happen, not because i need it to happen". Make it a option (preferred option) but not the only outcome of talking to a hot girl

@Tiger6niner-Lol your post made me laugh.

Good technique in getting rid of the desperation vibe:perfect example.

Great advise too at the end about the way to go about sex.

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What if the girl is really horny and jumps you all the time?

Oh no! What a pickle! I guess in that case, you let her hop on your disco stick and return to extinguishing your desperation vibe the following evening.

Broken penises exist you know