Hey guys, So I met this hb10 at school, we hit it off really well and I ended up number closing. Everything has been going well and she is giving me plenty of iois. The first time I tried to set up a day 2, she said she had work, but then after talking to her a bit she told me she was skipping work. I tell her to stop by my place then and she says she might later, but never does. A few hours later I see through facebook comments that she actually did go to work and find it weird that she lied to me about that. Then by the end of the night, the facebook post was deleted, I'm assuming because she realized I could end up seeing it.

A couple days later I invite her to come to a party this weekend and she accepts the invitation and seems pretty excited. Then two days later, she talks to her gay friend through facebook comments and says she is going to the club Saturday night and she'll see him there. This is the same day that she already made plans to drink with me.

I don't know if I should call her out on it, ignore it, or what. She could've actually forgotten about our plans, or she's going to have to blow off either me or her friend.

A few other things that caught my attention:
After we started talking she changed her facebook relationship from married (to a gay friend...I know, she has a lot of them) to single
Lately she's been posting facebook statuses like "is in need of a SERIOUS relationship" and "is afraid of commitment"

I know these are all little things, but it just doesn't add up to me, I can't figure this one out. Lemme know what you guys think.

well i know how u feel and it SUCKS...

k thats ok with her going to work and not coming to your place i mean would u go rather work and earn money or hang out with a guy she bearly knows and might not be that attractive(i dont know ur initial talking)
HOWEVER: if she accepted coming to ur party but she doesnt or has just an crappy excuse then i have only one word for you: NEXT... i mean noone deserves to be treated like that... and at last would u ditch ur wing or your buddy for a girl? i mean if so than think again and try to fix that... u cant expect her ditching her friend just because of u ....
i mean she is not sure if u are going to BANG THE SHIT out of her or u are just going to talk.... she could talk to her gay friend too and she might have waaaay more fun....got it?

regards ac3

UPDATE: So I texted her friday night, got around to asking if she was still planning on coming and she said yes. Then the day of I texted her to let her know what was up for that night, she said everything sounded good and that her friend was driving her and that she'd text me when she wanted the address. I didn't end up hearing from her until 2:30 am that night and she texted me saying sorry and that they started drinking early and went to a different party closer to where they live. I waited until the next day to text her back and she didn't reply to me. I think I should just forget about her and move on, but could she actually have had no control over the situation? She told me earlier that she didn't have her car for the night but I feel like she could've texted me before 2am to let me know. What do you guys think?