Hy guys! Last night I went sarging, I went to a Drumm and base and dubstep club, it was nice, but as I know in loud clubs, best way is to kino, and on that kind of music kino is hard I think.
Wath do you say about this?

Anyway, I left that club and went a pub named D'arc , a really nice one, where everybody was having alot of fun! I was with a friend, went in the middle of the club and inspcted the place, I saw next to me a HB with a tatoo on all her back , omg that was hot! So I said to my friend to take a beer and stay here. As I got back to the spot where that HB was, I instantly looked amazed at her tatoo and she saw, than instantly, said omg wath a nice tatoo, its so hot, she giggled , a few questions about the tatoo and that was it.. i lost it didn't knew how to continue and build raport!
So how could I had done this?


! Than I started to dance and have fun. She was in a 3 set, and they giggled and pointed at me and my friend.That was good. I tried to dance with them but they seemed to have aloooot of fun together, so I said to tatooed one,
-(ME)omg you girls are great party girls , You're having so much fun , i like you
- she laughed
-(ME)so how do you know each other?
-(HB)wath do you mean? we just know each other..!
-(ME)No no, i ment how did you got to know each other, because you seem to match each other, you're having good time!
-(HB)Well we are old friends, bla bla bla
And I lost it again, didn't know how to continuie the interaction

How could I cotinuied it?

After that we danced all of us, having fun, chit-chating sometimes, they were giggling alot, wath that ment? and one of her friends said to me that you look awsome! in the meantime, I saw a curly brunete analyzing me, and biig eye contact, but it was to easy, the tatooed one was much more hot ,and interesting, mostly because of the tatoo!

Finally when they wanted to leave, I n-closed her, telling that we should hang some time , they are really party girls! And she also told me
-hey your friend should have some fun and dance more if he wants to meet people, and tell him that curly brunete is a bitch, she's for the money ( because the curly brunete one opend us, i will post this in another topic so please visit and advice) Wath that ment? why did she told me that?

For me it was a great succes, it was my second night trying to sarge, and the AA didn't existed anymore that night! And I got a n-close , but wath should I do next? call her to have fun? and how to create connection???

Thank you very much!

P.S. I found it out that she was 26 and I am 21

next time you are out just send her a txt. could be something like.
"hey saw this weird girl with a tattoo (neg) and reminded me of you, me and my friends are going out to ..... you should join us."

Dont make her responce affect your night, is she says yeh then thats fine. If not then you were going out anyway so it doesnt matter. If she uses some lame excuse maybe give her some light negging on the matter. Keep the txting short and dont answer straight away. Your out with your friends not staring at your phone waiting to see what she has to say.

hope this helps, this is merely my opinion on what i would do with my current knowledge. Maybe a week from now ill have learnt something new and realise some of what i said was wrong

Thank you, good ideea with the negging !

Sorry, but I disagree. The point of getting a number is to set up a date. Nothing more. If you're going out with your friends, cool! That's great. Go out and get some more numbers. DO NOT INVITE A GIRL TO JOIN YOU AT A CLUB! And while you're at the club, don't start sending texts to a girl. If you're at the club, you're too busy having fun to be sitting around texting. What is she gonna think if you send her a text letting her know you're at the club? You've just lowered your value.

As I said earlier, the purpose of getting a number is to set up a date. You have the number, now set up the date. I gave this same advice earlier. Make a plan on what you want to do and when you want to do it. I prefer Tuesday or Wednesday. Mondays always sucks because it's the first day of the work week. Thursdays can be a hit or miss. Some people like to go out to party, some like to chill. Fridays and Saturdays are definitely party nights, and Sunday is the wind down from the weekend.

Either way, figure out what you want to do and when. Whether you're calling or texting it all works the same.

1. Your initial greeting
2. Your fluff talk
3. The point of you contacting her (the date)
4. Is your goodbye

You don't need to have a long drawn out conversation. That's something she can have with her girlfriends. You're on a mission. If she says yes, GREAT! Don't bother contacting her again until the day of the date, and that contact is only to verify that the date is still on.

If she says she can't because she's busy and doesn't offer up another day, DELETE the number. If she says yes, then on the day you contact her to verify that the date is still on, and she says she can't, but doesn't offer up another date, then DELETE the number.

If a girl is interested, she will give you another date. If she doesn't, she's a flake and is not worth your time. When she does flake, your only response should be OK and nothing more. I've had girls flake on me and after my response of OK, text me hours later asking if another day is ok. It sucks when girls flake, but you won't let her know that. As far as she knows, you have other options, so who cares if she can't make it.