Hey guys, heres the deal. I had a date with this chick on Tuesday, went really well. At the end of the date she said that she really had fun and we should do it agian soon. I asked if she was free friday night, she said she was and to call her and we could set something up.

I emailed her the next morning telling her that I had a good time and that I would call soon to talk about friday. She emailed me back shortly telling me that she had a great time also and to "definitly" call her so we could talk about friday. Well I called her later that night and couldn't get ahold of her so I left a voicemail. She did not call me back, when I got to work this morning I saw that she emailed me that morning saying that she was sorry that she didn't call me back and she felt bad but she accidently left her phone at work and didn't get my message until this morning. She said that friday can still kinda work but she promised her friend that she would go with her to this new bar "hard times" for the past three weeks and she has been bailing on her, so she feels bad. She said we could go to dinner beforehand and to let her know, she also said that she would call me later tonight.

How should I handle this?? I emailed her back and told her that we could go to dinner beforehand but if it's a bad time and she needs to reschedule to let me know. Any advise??

slow down bro, dont call her as much, as david deangelo says give her the gift of missing you. let her contact you, try and play it cool like its not that big of a deal. it sounds like she likes you, and if so this will help you out cause she will see that you are not a needy person. show her that you have patience. i wouldnt even worry about this friday if i were you. dont sweat it cause it sounds like you can still salvage the situation. i hope i helped.

if you must contact her, make yourself wait a few days at least maybe like 2 or 3

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No more spoon feeding you.

What do you think you should do. How should you approach it?

I dont know is not going to work this time.

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dude ur being AFC
sounds like u like this girl so i understand

but ur having this girl fit YOU into her schedule- it should be the other way around man

she needs to be chasing not u
u need to switch it and reverse it

im not sure dinner was a good idea - but i dont know if cancelling on her is either... u have to get a read on it

normally - if a girl tells me she kinda needs to go out with her friends "i say go for it - i dont own u, yet (C/f) besides my boys want me to go out with them to this sports bar and watch the game anyway, i just didnt want to be an ass and cancel on u (neg - she just cancelled on u kinda). Win win for both of us. the worlds not ending tomorrow - YOU can see ME another day (make urself the prize). I'll give you a call when im free again."

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Your right, I'll let her call me and see whats up. If she wants to go with her friend, no big deal. I'll just tell her to give me a call when she wants to do something.

no dude!
tell her ull call her when YOU want to do something with HER again
or when u can do something

and since she denied u for a friday

make the next free time on a weeknight (or day)
weekends are for friends and LTRS

she has to EARN your weekend!

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