Hey guys,

So I met a girl about 3 weeks ago and have been posting my progress as I have been moving a long. I met her at a club, HB8/9. Got her number, went on 2 dates so far. She seems fun and interesting, and I still am curious about getting to know her more and playing it out. From our interactions Im certain she has fun and loves spending time with me also. We text very regularly and talk on the phohne a couple of times a week. However, one thing I have noticed, is that I always have to initiate the texting. She is never the one to do so. If I dont text her, I wont hear from her. I talked to her last night (phone - Sunday) and plan not to contact her today (monday) and Tues atleast to see if she decides to initiate contact. I want to use this as a gauge of her level of interest.

Another thing I wanted to ask is, she is an attractive woman, as such she goes on many dates, which does not intimidate me or bother me at all. And so far, I have been able to stand out, "I've never met a guy like you" blah blah.

One thing I want to escalate is physically. I still have not been able to K close. On the second date, I tried to escalate physically with kino, hand touching etc. She does not like PDA which makes it tougher. How do I make her want me physically? One thing I have stacked up against me already is she goes for guys who are 6 feet tall usually. I am trying to break bounds here being 5.7ft tall... I am in great shape, built and toned, so its not like im skinny or something. Any ideas for me guys?

Thanks once again, and you guys rock!

Hey jason,
You need to work on your inner game a little! First, don't text her regularly.Texts are not meant for chatting..How are you, how was your day, what you had In dinner? Dont chat this way.Texts are meant for flirting and teasing .Don't think too much about it.have your own life.dont invest in a single girl.it may harm your attitude.she seems more social.what your doing is you text her and wait for her approval(her Text )and if she texts you back if she approves you you are always ready to chat.YOU HAVE LOWERED YOUR VALUE. dont do this. dont reply to her text immediately after your phone beeps.take your own time..then reply if you think it's important.If you feel you need to text her just tease her or flirt with her.just make some statements and do your own work. but only 2, 3 text dont be available for her..
As you are saying you have had 2 dates and you haven't gone for kiss close.your being unconfidante, your being too boar for her.be confidante and go for what you want.remember you are an alpha.alpha man doesn't give a shit if she is the hottest girl for her or any super model.he does his own things.he goes for what he wants. dont hesitate.you are a man.you lead she will follow.you have other things to do In life.you shouldn't care about her approval..

Thanks man.

Can you give me tips on improving my inner game?

I'll recommend you Carlos xuma's secrets of the alpha man.just go through the whole book slowly..believe me it will improve your whole game..all the best!

Okay - hold on before you go doing stupid things.

Look - you already have this girl. She already stated that by sayin "I've never met a guy like you." There's no need to get all "I need to improve a lot" - you already got her.

Next off - the previous poster does have a point. Don't be the one to always initiate contact & reduce texting to not so much. Also keep your texts short, not too long. It will irritate and unless she's into reading .. (which is unlikely for most girls that are hot - nvdr.) she won't do it.

Keep in mind tho - saying what you think or feel directly beats indirect game. Just state that you find her attractive, and say that out loud. You shouldn't care how/when or what.. just do it.

Also ! If she is really being a douche about you touching her, try touching another girl in front of her eyes.. always makes them jealous.

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Guys you are awesome. I really appreciate the advice. I definitely think you are both right about the texting... I have been talking to her via text way too often, to the point where its becoming sort of boring and monotonous. So i def wana cut that down and pull away a bit. One other question I do have is, if I do stop texting her as often, maybe down to a text every couple of days or so, how do I continue to build attraction between us till our next date? I feel like its very easy to lose what was built up in the prior two dates with long lag times in bw meet ups. Also, how do you guys feel about talking on the phone rather than texting? How often do you think is okay also, because talking too regularly can take the fun out of conversation when you meet for the date as well no?

thanks again guys

Hey lyrical,
sorry but here u have missed a point..you are saying that because she stated , "i have never met a guy like you"she is attracted to him.but she isn't. as Jason stated she is an attractive girl.she goes on many dates.she is an alpha women.and she is just playing with him by saying"i have never met a guy like you"she doesn't mean it.it's more like a nice guy compliment.she wants to see his reaction.she wants him to get bold.may be initially there was some interest from her side.but after some time she got cold.he couldn't hold her interest.he couldn't create any tension.There are still some chances to get the attraction back..
Jason,next time when you call her dont get into interview mode conversation.just make it small,light and fun.use some call back humor.also fix you next date..!but this time make sure you are going with much confidante and little carefree attitude.and just have fun
also for doing some dhv just do this simple thing...text her randomly like this"hey sorry i couldn't come.may be i'll try tomorrow" she will ask "what?"
You-(after some time )what happened?
She-where u couldn't come?

then just (reply after some time)"oh hey sorry it was meant for someone else.it was sent to you by mistake"
Little things like this may help you showing you are also In demand! Lol! All the best