wow... i never looked at it from this point

To quote Style "be the best version of yourself"

It's so true. Looks do matter. But grooming and presentation matter more.
If you're not naturally the best looking guy in the world, get a style, get a fashion.
Work on your presentation and it will go miles towards helping your game.

Get yourself in the gym and eat well, plenty of protein, girls like a good body on a guy, just like we want women with good bodies.

Thats what I ment.

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By looks i meant natural looks, but it pleases me to know that presentation/grooming is just as important/maybe more important.
Good news.

Also, girls often compliment my clothes, but I dress not-manly. Is it important to dress masculinely? Because I think based on my height and build, stuff which is considered slightly less masculine, like skinny jeans and shirts with skinny ties etc suits me more...but is that bad? Does that lower a girls sexual attraction to you because youre not as "manly"?

You know something, a lot of women like that look nowadays. I'm 6'5 280 and masculine and I've been pushed off more girls than I can count by guys who don't weigh 120 dripping wet.

You are probably going for the different demographic. Start hanging out with goth and indie chicks, they dig that sort of thing.

I mean, look at a lot of emo guys. They get more ass than a toilet seat.

Personally I'd be an idiot to try with those girls because I'd scare the living shit out of them, they don't want their pussies stretched that way.
It sure the fuck annoys the shit out of me. When I see a hetero dude dressed that way my natural instinct is to backhand him.
O_O

LMFAO
Your response to the second thing you quoted was my exact reaction also XD
Like "What am i meant to take from that?"

ahahaha alright, thanks. What you say makes sense. Its all about specialising, right?
Cheers mate

Some of those girls are real freaks.

Goth girls yes, not so much hipster chicks or indies.

Go the gym. will make getting attraction a lot easier.

really?
How much easier? Like, if you could put a % increase?

I actually started just today...im worried though that if i put on muscle my current game wont work because ill look more intimidating rather than threat-less?
What if being bigger doesnt suit me and makes it look like im trying to overcompensate also?

(Im 5'6)
I spose i just have a phobia of being like this kid who I knew, who was chunky and small and it looked like he was just trying to prove something. He was boulder-shaped.

Looks are shit. Arbitrary.

If you are totally awesome, like seriously the shitz then looks don't count as shit.

But do understand that when I say looks, I am referring to the bone and facial features of ryan seacrest or the ass of that calvin klein model. You don't need that stuff. You don't need to look like seacrest or tom cruise, you just got to have their awesomeness, their glory.

But in terms of hygiene, it is utmost important and you are definitely screwed if you don't take care of that aspect. Brush your teeth, use proactiv to get rid of the acne, make sure your hair don't look like a caveman's, shower twice a day. Come on, it's not hard at all. fashion,.. jeez, I dunno if I'd put that under looks. I always thhought looks were how your face looks or how tall you are (generally the stuff tha you have no choice but to live with)

Height matters shit. It only matters if you think it matters. Cause if you think it matters, you are going to be giving off little cues or little hints that you are insecure about whatever adn the girls,.. the girls can pick up the tiniest of these signals and then BOOM,.. you are fucked.

So yea, you dun have to look like ryan seacrest, that gorgeous calvin klein model. I mean sure it will help, but I don't need the extra help. I've seen ugly guys pull like magic I shit you not I almost chop off my dick after seeing them do that.

It actually does matter. Ever tried being 6'5 and getting a girl who is small? They don't like it. Same with smaller guys and girls who are over 6 feet. Good luck with that.

The fact is people have different preferences.

If you look good, you can get attaction without even opening your mouth, as far as a % goes, that all depends on how much you improve your looks.
going the gym doesnt mean you have to get big, you can train for definiton and to get toned.

Also the gym can be a good place to game.

I have looked good all my life. Have been approached by HB's6-8 regularly. But I didn't know how to handle it, and screwed it up making them feel uncomfortable. So I guess, as one person said, looks get you in the door, but the rest is what you make of it via a personality.

Obviously a good looking guy is gonna have it easier than a less attractive guy. It's just common sense. Don't worry about it. Rich and famous guys are going to have it easier than most of us too. There's nothing you can do about it, just focus on yourself and don't compare yourself to anybody else.