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Ok...
I read a few posts on this thread and I seriously think there's something missing here.
Introverted Alphas are not Lone Wolves.
The difference between the introverted alpha and the lone wolf is that the introverted alpha IS ACTUALLY AN ALPHA. Lone wolves are shy betas, who don't know what the fuck is going on and decided to give up and die by themselves in despair.
The introverted alpha, in the other hand, knows what going on. They see the big picture. They understand social dynamics and know how to act upon their understanding. They are not loners. They might not be social in the sense that they're the life of the party, frat-boy style, but they are sociable and can talk and listen to people. The introverted alpha does care about what other people have to say, but care more about what he thinks. He doesn't care about how others think about him because he understands that everybody has their own life experiences and, therefore, have their own opinions and he respects that. But, what's most important is the introverted alpha knows that he is valuable. He knows and loves himself.
When it comes to women, he approaches but doesn't put a lot of weight on any of his approaches. He understands social cues, and reads IOI's well. He approaches when he sees what he wants and recognizes how to use eye contact and body language to get IOI's (or the lack thereof) from his "target". Women don't usually speak to him first, but stand next to him with their backs facing him hoping that he would take notice and start the conversation. He understands that rejection is a part of life and that not every woman is going to want to jump his bone. He realizes that life consists a lot of randomness and that he can meet women everywhere he goes, not just bars and nightclubs. He goes out explores life (whether it be by himself or with others), is open to new experiences, and expresses himself when he feels like it.
This is the introverted alpha. He is comfortable with himself and with other people.
+1, great description in my opinion.